Thanks for all the work that goes into maintaining a site like this you guys. Happy Birthday!
GBL
five years sure goes by fast .... http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/6/46/1.ashx.
we're busy as ever and there are lots of plans for the future.
there will be some changes in the coming week or so which i will announce later.. in the meantime, happy birthday to us
Thanks for all the work that goes into maintaining a site like this you guys. Happy Birthday!
GBL
jw's have a vocabulary and terminology of their own dont they?
i have thought about putting togther an apostaglossary to identify those particular sayings and their true meaning; i have included a few to start the ball rolling;.
'he doesnt have the right heart condition'.
Mary and liz2cool (walter) are the funniest posters. They should open up their own weekly segment!
GBL
i finally figured out why i'm so socially retarded...it just hit me.. here i was sitting and wondering why i have such a hard time meeting new people, making friends, thinking of relevent things to say, and so on.
it really is painful and scary for me.
i was told who i could talk to, who i couldn't talk to, what i could say, what i couldn't say.
The structure of the congregation is the reason some people are screwed up socially. That is a fact. The only way a person isnt affected by it is if they are not playing by the rules. Sure you can have JW friends in your congregation and surrounding ones, but they are circumstantial friends.
Therein lies the problem. As ex witnesses we now have very little in common with witnesses and are not sure what we have in common with worldlings. The only way I turned out somewhat normal is that I rebeled and had worldly friends in highschool.. I developed social skills because I rebeled. Some members of my family are really finding it tough to make the transition after leaving the borg. Its a real problem and it takes a lot of time. I really understand this one.. I always encourage my family to stay outside of their comfort zone socially and to set little goals for themselves that they can attain. KEEP WORKING AT IT. It gets better with time and you will find really nice friends outside of that organization! Great topic.
GBL
so i was out working in my yard the other day.
i've met a lot of my neighbors that i didn't know recently, because as i'm working in the yard, they stop by to chat as they're walking the dog, etc.
i'm really getting to know the neighborhood.
We are all so much better off out of that Org.. in so many ways. Most people are good at heart.
GBL
i've noticed on this forum that a fair few ex-jw's still refer to the members of the non-christain cult known as the jehovah's witneses as christians.
im aware that current members may wrongly believe they are in fact christians because the organisation leads them to believe they are serving god.
but for ex-members who are awake to the false teachings of this non-christain organisation, i thought they may be more prudent in their choice of words, and not refer to them as christians.
Most of the Christians I've met arent "Christian" as far as I'm concerned, whatever that means anyway. I've met athiest's who act more like Jesus did then most Christians I know.
GBL
i had heard of accounts of young baptisms, but i figured it was the exception rather than the rule.
now i wonder, after viewing the models of youth paraded at the last assembly.
i took note of the ages and age of baptism of the five young men (no girls this time) who were interviewed as models of jw youth at this last week's assembly.
I was this same type of kid. "Pioneering", had a part in a drama, did demonstrations at assemblies. As a kid you think you are just the cat's ass and are really "advancing". All thats really happening is you are screwing yourself over later in life. Those kids up in the bleachers goofing off have a much better chance of getting out of the shit better equiped socially to deal with life then the kids on stage.
GBL
i was born into the "truth", so it is pretty much to only life i have known.
i have been studying the bible seriously since my teens, about 15+ years.
then it hit me about 6 months ago, i?m not really studying the bible, but rather the wt publications.
Hey, welcome to the board Jula! So nice to see new ones.
GBL
i posted this on the other watchman thread.. you know what is sooooooooooo funny?
e watchman hates, absolutely hates ray franz.
wait for it............................................................................................. .
Because YouKnow (aka. EWatchman) is a total moron.
GBL
ok, loosing my damnable mind over here.
i have not smoked today and i am ready to climb the walls....so, with that said, is it just me?....
or is it this irritability frustration that could be solved with some "cuddling?
Hmmm. Smoking is a difficult and harmful addiction. You may use me to get over this dreaded vice. Please be gental.
GBL
tonight i heard one of the most cruel and twisted comments i've ever heard at the platform.
the topic was the apocalypse and whether or not children will be slaughtered.
through one side of his mouth, the po stated that the bible is not clear on the matter, while out the other side he pointed to all those old testament accounts where children were killed.
That's what we are here for dude. I know how it feels man.
GBL