Frankfort, KY. October 8, 1983. I was baptized by my Father. It was the first time I had ever seen him cry. The second time was as he was refussing to walk me down the aisle. You see I married a "non believer".
BobsGirl
i thought it might be interesting to see how many here remember where and when they were baptised into the borg.
for some the memory may be too painful, but i'm curious.. me.
it was 1966 in vancouver, bc.
Frankfort, KY. October 8, 1983. I was baptized by my Father. It was the first time I had ever seen him cry. The second time was as he was refussing to walk me down the aisle. You see I married a "non believer".
BobsGirl
i am having a really tough time with fear.
mine is one of the stories on bill bowen's silentlambs site.
i have survived more than 14 years of abuse, left the "borg", married a man that is amazingly supportive and not a jw, sought counseling and recovery, given birth to a newborn baby boy ...... every one of which has required courage and intestinal fortitude.
I am having a really tough time with fear. Mine is one of the stories on Bill Bowen's Silentlambs site. I have survived more than 14 years of abuse, left the "borg", married a man that is amazingly supportive and NOT a JW, sought counseling and recovery, given birth to a newborn baby boy ...... every one of which has required courage and intestinal fortitude. But for some reason, whenever I try to tell my story, or even think about joining in the lawsuits, I feel my blood freeze. What is it? Why can't I take that last final step? Am I the only one who has experienced this? Am I the only chicken out there?
BobsGirl
i thought it would be interesting for people to just post a few things about themselves so we can get to know each other just a bit.. try posting 10 facts about your life.. joel.
1. i was born and raised in south georgia.. 2. my favorite subject in school was math.. 3. i was in the fulltime service (bethel and pioneer) for 4 years.. 4. my favorite color is blue.. 5. mitch and i have been together over 12 years.. 6. we live in a suburb of atlanta georgia.. 7. we love to eat out and have friends over for dinner and board games.. 8. the only sport i was ever any good at is tennis.. 9. my favorite tv show of all time is the simpsons.. 10. we are both naturists and wish we could lay on the beach naked every day.
1. I am madly in love with my husband.
2. My husband and I are both madly in love with our new son .... Noah.
3. I have been writing music since I was 4 years old.
4. I am 5'3", but no one has ever thought of me as short, since I have such a big mouth.
5. I am happier than I ever thought I could be.
6. I have a 4.0 GPA
7. I have a 10lb dog named Molly.
8. We are a Toyota family.
9. Did I mention that I have the best husband in the world??
10. I recently found out that the prospect of death by chocolate may not be as pleasant as it seems.
BobsGirl
following on from the anybody else had visions?
thread below ( http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/forum/thread.asp?id=10144&site=3).
i have offered a prize of 50 american dollars or the equivalent in your currency of choice for whoever can guess (or envision or whatever) the contents of a picture i have chosen.. i will be emailing the picture, in password zip format to [email protected] along with unambiguous details of what qualifies as a correct guess.
Hey Jan,
Before you go waxing all vitriolic on a girl, double check the screen name. If Derek hadn't busted me, the plan was to bust myself. I have NEVER made claims to have supernatural abilities. You are confusing me with another proud lover :I.
:Until that cheap stunt on Derek, you might have had some credibility. Now it's obvious you'll use fraud to support your claims to supernatural abilities. What is it to you? a publicity stunt?
BobsGirl
following on from the anybody else had visions?
thread below ( http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/forum/thread.asp?id=10144&site=3).
i have offered a prize of 50 american dollars or the equivalent in your currency of choice for whoever can guess (or envision or whatever) the contents of a picture i have chosen.. i will be emailing the picture, in password zip format to [email protected] along with unambiguous details of what qualifies as a correct guess.
Funkyderek,
I do not know you. In fact, I am very new to this board and don't know anyone except for Bill Bowen. Yesterday I came across this thread and found it entertaining. I thought about you yesterday, just to see if I could "sense" anything about you. What I came up with was a hodge podge of names and words. They mean nothing to me....what about you?
Dublin
Walsh
Smurfit
Hurling
Philip Glasswell
Durham, NC
Rugby
BobsGirl
i am due in the middle of october and my husband and i cannot come up with a name.
i almost had him sold on venus, until he asked people at work what they thought and he got wierd looks.
i wanted to name the last baby sidney, but let him name her because he has never gotten a chance to name a kid before.
I just had a little boy that we named Noah ..... If he had been a girl the name would be the same, but the spelling different.
Noa .... I love it!
Congrats!!
BobsGirl
Cincinnati, Ohio
BobsGirl
i post the following at the request of barbara anderson.. .
as a result of the newspaper report calling attention to my actions i feel compelled to provide further information that has come to light and deserves full exposure.. the society is very much aware of my intentions, because of a private e-mail i innocently wrote someone was forwarded to the society without my permission.
you can read it in its entirety, below.
Barb,
This is only the second time I have posted, ever. I was moved by what you had to say and the courage that you have shown. I wish I could say more. I wish I had your courage, for I definately have a story. Maybe one day. Thanks again, for all the good you have done and wil do.
BobsGirl
i recieved this note from a young person i know personally.
it brought tears to my eyes for someone so young to see things so clearly.
why can't six million others see this simple reality and the need for change?.
RE: Wayne and his "As a student of psychology, I can affirm that the incidence of true child molestation is extremely low among Jehovah's Witnesses...." comment.
I am not sure which offends me more, "student of psychology" crack or the "true child molestation" phrasology.
I am curious .... what constitutes a "student of psychology"? How many credit hours are required before you can "affirm that the incidence of true child molestation is extremely low among" any faith?
Also.... what exactly constitutes "true child molestation"? "true" as opposed to???
As someone who double majored in both English and Education I can assure you that the writing style in the WT and Awake magazines suck ... because you see this is my area of expertise. As the great granddaughter a pedophile who did happen to be a child molester, and the first of the FOURTH generation of children he abused, I can assure you that "true child molestation" happens more often than I think God would be happy with if this truly were his one and only "Spirit Annointed Organization".
my wife has just left for the memorial.. just before she went she asked me to come...this was the second year in a row that i declined.
i hated seeing her so sad, i almost agreed to go just to cheer her up but that would betray her in a very real sense.
to go to the memorial would be an admission in her eyes (and other jws) that i still believe deep down that it is the truth.
Hello All,
This is my first post. I have been reading your posts for a while now, but today I had to speak up. I have been inactive for about 5 years now, but this was the first time that I didn't attend the Memorial. My husband was my strength. I had the wisdom NOT to marry a good JW. Instead I married a heathen (good for me, in more ways than one!!!) who told me that if I went he would go with me and partake in fron of everyone. LOL. He meant it too! He gave me the strength not to pretend this year.
I am going to deliver my first child any day now, and my family has stepped up their efforts to "reactivate" me and "convert" my husband out of a need to indoctrinate my child. I love my family, they are good people who have a desperate need to cling to the only hope they have ever known. I am greatful every day that I have found a bigger, more liberating hope.
I am also grateful that I have a husband who is not afraid to scour the internet for so called "apostate" sites and email me links to threads that he knows will hit home. Above all, I am grateful that there are others out there who understand what I am going through without me even having to name it.
Thank you!
PS When is the air date for the Dateline Expose??