Holly,
If you've got kids, I hope they're never molested by some self-righteous elder type...but if they are, be sure to tell them what you told us "
...if you can be misjudged and badly hurt and then punished for something that isnt your fault, and you can bow to that punishment and accept it, and forgive those people that did it to you, and accept that punishment like it was your fault, even when it wasnt, then i think you have found the true meaning of love and forgiveness, and hold the keys to the kingdom."
-BONEZZ
PS.... and don't let the door hit you on the ass on your way outa here!