There was a very well respected elder in my cong that I will call Mr. R. This elder was a very zealous and pious JW and the PO. Mr. R was of Cuban descent and had extremely conservative veiws. Mr. R being the upstanding JW and elder had a very attractive wife and two cute kids. I remember listening to this man do the Sunday talks and he would go on and on about how perverse the world is and how sex is every where to tempt you and your kids. I specifically remember one talk where he blasted a popular spanish television childrens show, and told all the parents in attendence not to allow their kids to watch beacuse the characters would talk about liking this person or other, boyfriends and maybe even an innocent kiss. Ok please understand the shows characters were between the ages of 5 to 10 years of age. It was a very cute and innocent show about friendship, school and family. I enjoyed watching this show, and it pissed me off that he could take something so innocent and blow it out proportion. My parents were strict and that was one of the few things I was allowed to see. Anyway his son later married the only JW friend I had in the cong at the time. Fast forward to today, I ran into my old friend & we chatted. I told my mom I had run into her, blah blah...my mom then tells me that Mr. R, my friends father-in-law, was df'd. I could not believe my ears, so I asked why, and it turns out Mr. R had a huge porn fetish and the wifey caught him several times on line watching porn, she told him to stop, he would say ok, then do it again, so she took the computer to the elders and showed them what he was up to. So the other elders df'd the upstanding pious Mr. R and encouraged the Mrs. to divorce him, and so she did. I am still in shock, but not before I reminded my mom what an intolerant anti sex, zealous hypocrite he was, all those years telling us how we should lead our lives. My mom of course had no comment. Dragonlady76