i was asked almost this very question a few days ago. I answered it with the question of whats stopping you from coming and visit once in awhile? no reply as usual quite a conversation stopper. They never come to visit. But did answer thier question. we had been at a funeral for a witness friend who had passed away and i told them the behavior exhibited from the PO, and several elders of the deceased's former congregation who got up and walked out when it came time for members of her family to say a few words. That hypricosy (*spelling)) and the blatant insult to the family of the deceased. Their leaving raised a few eyebrows, the funeral was at the funeral home. I guess they only wanted to hear the witness ad put on by the elder who gave the witness talk instead of comforting the family and having something really decent to say about the deceased.
Their behaviior shows just what kind of heartless rectum circles these people are/can be etc. etc.