This post remnds of how some I knew about were treated even tho they had returned to the fold so to speak and had been reinstated. One brother in particular who had been reinstated years before I got to that particular congregation, still had no priviledges, now some 13 years of knowing him, he still has no real priviledges in the congregation. Its like they have elephantitis, they never forget, unless of course you are a child of one of the powerful elders and then things are quickly forgiven and you are reinstted in record speed.
I know of several of these incidences, one elders step daughter was reinstated 6 months after getting divorced from her hubby, she remarried her boyfriend, he ex remarried another elders daughter.
my my real fair play huh? Peyton place there in good ole sin diego.
won't get any more specific than that.