I just got this from a JW I reconnected with on facebook.
This is what I wrote him:
XXXXX, I don't know if I told you plainly, but I really am not a JW any longer, I no longer go to meetings and I have no desire anymore to be with organized religions.
I don't know how you will feel knowing this but i just wanted to tell you.
purps His response: Tis ok..purps I knew that. but thanks for thinking of me and being up front about it. I respect your choice, and so long as YOUR happy, isn't that what it's all about. I remember " purps" the person, and that's what draws me and keeps me interested.
edited to add:
This is what I wrote him in response
thanks, that means alot,
you can understand I have lost lots of JW friends.
As time has gone by I have become happier with my decision.
I miss many things about my association with JW's and the organization but I would not trade it for my life as it is now.
I wish we could go through our journey in life and not loose friendships but it's not possible once a JW to leave and continue
with those friendships, and I do miss them terribly.
I find that few people actually get to know the person
and friendships become to conditional.
Thanks for the friendship,
it means allot to me.