I thought I'd be clever in my JC and tell them that love was what Jesus said would be the identifying mark. The elder told me pretty straight that "love wasn't everything,
Loubelle, but you were right and the elder was wrong - love IS everything!
Matthew 7:12
“Whatever you wish that men would do to you, do so to them…for this is the law and the prophets” see also (Matt
then there is my personal favourite...
1 Corinthians 13:1 (English Standard Version)
If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.
and to confirm priorities:
Verse 13
So now faith, hope and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love.