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  We know someone grew up in the 1970's...

  by greendawn in

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  "if they are well acquainted with the lyrics of the "grease" soundtrack, weren't allowed to see the omen or the excorcist, had a massive video player at home, can't recall using mobile phones, they know who killed jr." and what else?

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  OMG Stealyourface, I totally forgot about the HUGE crush I had on Bobby Sherman from the tv show "Here come the brides."
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  Impending Divorce

  by love2Bworldly in

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  will someone please tell me things will get better for me.

  i know i'm going to end up filing for a divorce in the near future, and i've already moved out.

  but i feel terribly guilty, as i was not really in love when i married my spouse 3 years ago--and he is ending up to be such a mess for me financially and emotionally.

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  Actually Mini--I do feel ready to be divorced, because I don't want to be his wife anymore but I do want to be his friend. The relationship is way way too dysfunctional and co-dependent for me to continue being his partner. I am the first person he confided to about his childhood abuse--which explains a lot about the way he is, and makes me feel very guilty for abandoning him; also his mother was sickly and depended upon him from age ten to buy groceries riding in a cab etc, so he had no childhood.

  He has gone to a few counseling sessions, not recently, and he seems to get a thrill from changing jobs and/or interviewing for jobs because he ALWAYS gets offered jobs. Then he will work for a couple months, get pissed off at the company politics, and then work for a new company. He is 45, has no retirement plan, and can't keep medical benefits on his own. This has been going on for the 3 years we've been married. (Before we were married, he had been working at the same company for about a year.) He has also many times been ill or become injured and lost jobs due to taking extended medical leaves. He has blown up 3 different computers due to his porn addiction, because we always get viruses, and he ALWAYS lies about using porn. I've told him so many times that I am not mad at him because he has an addiction, I am mad because he is constantly lying to me about this stuff and he won't take care of my intimacy needs.

  Anyway, I'm just venting. I just don't want to stay married to someone because I feel sorry for them. And I feel that I shouldn't stay in a relationship with such a selfish person.

  Thanks for letting me vent people. I feel a little better now.
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  Im in the national newspapers today!

  by katiekitten in

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  my partner successfully sued gloucestershire constabulary yesterday.

  we got our day in court, and today we are on the front page of the daily mail and the gloucester citizen, and we are in several other nationals and locals, my partner's been interviewed by sky news and the bbc.. we finally got them to listen to us after ignoring our letters and phone calls for months.

  and it feels fantastic!.

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  Can you fill me in? I can't access the link and missed your previous info about it.
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  turning 2 pioneers into wt zombies, talking to , 2 passer-byers

  by johnny cip in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i rip straight into .

  these 2 poineers, trying to push the lastest craptower.

  the men were being nice as these women were thier moms.

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  Awesome witnessing folks! I'm thinking of putting some print-out articles in the mailboxes of local KH, about Jesus Cano little escapades with his camera in the men's room.
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  Matt 22:23-30--no sex for resurrected ones?

  by M.J. in

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  2. bible

  the wts promotes the idea that in the "new system" members of the great crowd, who are not resurrected, will be able to marry and have children.. but what about those that are resurrected?.

  does the wts apply matt 22:23-30 to people resurrected on earth?

  (the passage is obviously applied to people who were pre-new covenant).

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  LMAO resurection = no erection Hilarious just hilarious

  This is a good subject, because it always bothered me when I was a JW. I remember my friend's mother, who was very happily married, had a little fantasy that if she lost her husband and stayed single that Jehoover would make special exceptions to the rule for people like her and allow her to REMARRY her resurrected spouse.

  Another item that used to REALLY annoy me were the debates over what resurrected people would look like. It made no sense to me whatsoever that if I was resurrected in a new body that God wouldn't use his power to make the new body look like the old me, that I might not be recognized except for my personality. What a load of hogwash!
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  NEW TRACT

  by stillajwexelder in

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  sorry if posted elsewhere.

  the new tract (kingdom news 37) was released last night.

  letter read to congregation.

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  Hyped up about what? Sounds like the same old same old over and over and over again.
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  HELP ,need advice about wacko sis-in-law

  by annalice in

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  i have posted a topic on this before back on march 21,06 .i wrote about how she had made up her own disasociation cards for us and had sent us some disturbing letters.

  well now we have a new letter from her ,it was addressed to our 11 month old son, care of his father.

  in the envelope she has actually taken the time to photo copy the exodus account of the of the first born sons of all egyptions being killed by gods angel.

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  Wow--that's really disturbing. It's hard when family members stress us out. I wish you the best in how you decide to handle the situation.
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  Impending Divorce

  by love2Bworldly in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  will someone please tell me things will get better for me.

  i know i'm going to end up filing for a divorce in the near future, and i've already moved out.

  but i feel terribly guilty, as i was not really in love when i married my spouse 3 years ago--and he is ending up to be such a mess for me financially and emotionally.

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  Thanks for your replies--you don't know how much I appreciate them.

  Even though I don't want to be married to my spouse, I want to stay friends with him but don't know if it's possible.

  Thanks again--you guys give me hope. I just needed to hear from others that a lot of people go through the same thing, and I have to let myself grieve. I had really hoped that things would work out and I'm disappointed that my husband is not working toward making any changes--although he has promised over and over again that things will get better.
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  Walmart Rage (MeLTdOwN)

  by MsMcDucket in

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  man!

  wtf is wrong with people in walmart?

  did they leave their manners at home?!

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  OMG I thought it was a local Walmart issue!!! We call Walmart, Dorkmart. I have kids and a tight budget, so I do shop there. But the weirdos outnumber the normal people by far. I am always looking around laughing at people who just look SO ridiculous--their hair, their clothes, it's way worse than shopping at the Dollar store--which I go to also but hate it. The dollar store has a lot of drug addicts and homeless crazy people who shop there--I won't go there at night.
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  Impending Divorce

  by love2Bworldly in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  will someone please tell me things will get better for me.

  i know i'm going to end up filing for a divorce in the near future, and i've already moved out.

  but i feel terribly guilty, as i was not really in love when i married my spouse 3 years ago--and he is ending up to be such a mess for me financially and emotionally.

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  love2Bworldly

  Will someone please tell me things will get better for me. I know I'm going to end up filing for a divorce in the near future, and I've already moved out. But I feel terribly guilty, as I was not really in love when I married my spouse 3 years ago--and he is ending up to be such a mess for me financially and emotionally. He has so much baggage and problems, most of which I was unaware when we got married. He owes about $120,000 to the DA for child support, he changes jobs ALL the time, he has diabetes that he doesn't take seriously, he was sexually abused growing up, and due to his blood sugar and our marital issues--we are only intimate every few months. Whatever feelings and caring I felt toward him before have totally vanished because I am fed up and don't even like him right now. He just got served with an eviction notice, which has my name on it also.

  He wants to get a loan with a lien on our car to catch up. We've had financial problems since day one of our marriage, and I was able to bail us out because twice I received large lump sums of money from property and inheritance.

  Anyway, I just needed to vent. I already have an apartment for me and my 2 kids, but it's hard for me to sever the ties. I did not want a divorce 3 months ago when I got my apartment but now I do. I just need to be strong, but it's so hard. And he's trying to make me feel guilty by keep telling me that marriage is supposed to be through thick and thin.

  Anybody out there who's been through a recent divorce, do you have any comforting words for me? I feel so damn depressed.