I've been lucky to have my best friend when I was in the org come out of it at nearly the same time I did. She's kept in touch with a couple others from that first congregation we were all in together who have left too. It was good to be able to have someone to talk it out with, that's for sure.
She's always been more engaged than I am...did more as a JW certainly, and when she decided she'd had enough, quit faster and more decisively than I did. She also felt that there was much too much that was being altered and shifted by the WTS. All that "new light" was giving her a headache, so she started doing some research. I had just drifted away, figuring that I was the screwed up one, and was like avishai's ex-dub friends who don't want to hear bad stuff about the org. I thought it was still the truth and that I might go back.
My friend emailed me "Terry's Story" a couple weeks ago, however, and the damn burst. I've been all over the internet looking at "apostate" sites ever since and found JWD. I love this. What an amazing source of information and experiences. Nobody can quite understand like people who have been there.
If some can walk away and never look back, good for them, but I'm finding this a great way to de-program myself.