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  I've been outed...

  by brotherdan in

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  so this weekend my wife had a major grand mal seizure for the first time in her life.

  she was rushed to the er.

  a few hours later while i was at her side she had another major one.. it was the scariest moment in my life.

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  doofdaddy

  As noted by Nickolas and others, GM seizures have no correlation to stress. I have had GM seizures and went to the extent of visiting a Harley St neurosurgen for answers. None. They are not (usually) life threatening, just look bad. Interestingly, I have not had one since separating from jws 13 yrs ago.

  I too have gone through jw divorce/child custody and can only recommend getting legal advice. But at this moment, imo go to a counsellor, get yourself a decent place to live, then start being the best dad you can be.
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  Not dated in a while - could use some tips, advice lol

  by callitquits76 in

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  i guess the title says it all, but i'll expand.. recently met this beautiful girl who through another party expressed her interest in me which was quite flattering to be honest.

  im a 27 year old guy and truth is that i have really struggled with this kind of stuff since leaving the dubs a few years back now.

  i guess i still have their theories floating around in my head, you know, all the old rubbish about dating some of which goes back to that youth book.. we spoke today for the first time properly and i think it's game on.

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  doofdaddy

  Just relax. Don't read too much into it, or too far into the what if's. It's just a date. You may not like each other and all this angst is just a waste of energy. Go for it and have fun!
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  Is "Kingdumb Hall" really an offensive term?

  by cyberjesus in

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  2. bible

  if a friend of mine starts to say things out of emotion and i call him "schizophrenic" then that might be an insult.

  however if he is having auditory hallucinations, paranoid or bizarre delusions, or disorganized speech and thinking then that word becomes a description of his situation.. now i ask you.

  does the attendance to the kh promote intelligence?

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  doofdaddy

  Then again, OUTLAW's sense of humour always makes me smile, laugh even, and that helps me not take all this shit too seriously.

  you need a more sophisticated approach than schoolyard name calling.
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  Is "Kingdumb Hall" really an offensive term?

  by cyberjesus in

  1. watchtower
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  if a friend of mine starts to say things out of emotion and i call him "schizophrenic" then that might be an insult.

  however if he is having auditory hallucinations, paranoid or bizarre delusions, or disorganized speech and thinking then that word becomes a description of his situation.. now i ask you.

  does the attendance to the kh promote intelligence?

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  doofdaddy

  You have no idea...
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  Is "Kingdumb Hall" really an offensive term?

  by cyberjesus in

  1. watchtower
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  if a friend of mine starts to say things out of emotion and i call him "schizophrenic" then that might be an insult.

  however if he is having auditory hallucinations, paranoid or bizarre delusions, or disorganized speech and thinking then that word becomes a description of his situation.. now i ask you.

  does the attendance to the kh promote intelligence?

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  doofdaddy

  Have you quoted Ghandi to your wife Nickolas?
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  Is "Kingdumb Hall" really an offensive term?

  by cyberjesus in

  1. watchtower
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  if a friend of mine starts to say things out of emotion and i call him "schizophrenic" then that might be an insult.

  however if he is having auditory hallucinations, paranoid or bizarre delusions, or disorganized speech and thinking then that word becomes a description of his situation.. now i ask you.

  does the attendance to the kh promote intelligence?

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  Is "Kingdumb Hall" really an offensive term?

  No more offensive than calling the catholic church a drunken harlot having sex with any and all nations. Or apostates being dogs eating their own vomit....
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  "Who else are we to go away to?"

  by simon17 in

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  to the intellectually honest witness, it seems like it often comes down to this principle.

  "fine, if the witnesses aren't the truth, then show me the better answer and i'll consider it.

  " and how do you deal with that?

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  doofdaddy

  That throw away line about "showing me a better truth" is actually dripping with selfishness and laziness. It comes from the angle that what do I get out of it, rather than an actual search for the (elusive) truth. Should truth always be "good?" Should it be easy as studying the the jws? Should we attempt to use moral terms like good news to explain unfolding truth? Does it take real effort to find? And really what are we searching for and do we really want to know the truth?
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  Im trully beside myself..

  by Searchn4answrs in

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  really do appreciate the excellent info shared on the site...this network of such a dubious bunch, has provided much needed therapy .... .

  anyhow,i would like to share my dilemma.... i recently went to court.i petitioned for sole and legal custody and more child support.. i was granted more support,however custody wasnt even reviewed..i prepared extremely well for this hearing.

  actually that was my priority.

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  Ummmmm....
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  Im trully beside myself..

  by Searchn4answrs in

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  really do appreciate the excellent info shared on the site...this network of such a dubious bunch, has provided much needed therapy .... .

  anyhow,i would like to share my dilemma.... i recently went to court.i petitioned for sole and legal custody and more child support.. i was granted more support,however custody wasnt even reviewed..i prepared extremely well for this hearing.

  actually that was my priority.

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  doofdaddy

  Keep a record of all breaches of the legally binding agreement. (Don't tell the children but) Record, maybe in a diary with dates etc, comments from the children about their fears on access, or any bizarre religous requirements that the courts may frown upon, e.g. forcing children door to door in inclement weather, or dangerous situations (you mentioned a pedo).

  But most importantly, be consistent with your children. Give them a person they can trust who loves them without conditions, who clearly has their best interest at heart. If you do so, they will stick to you like glue and sadly for the birth father, unless he radically changes, will learn to despise him and his religion.
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  Wikileaks: U.S. Believes Saudi Arabia Is Running Out Of Oil

  by Bangalore in

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  wikileaks: u.s. believes saudi arabia is running out of oil.. http://www.autoblog.com/2011/02/09/wikileaks-u-s-believes-saudi-arabia-is-running-out-of-oil/.

  bangalore.

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  doofdaddy

  Australia has been running LNP conversions for decades. I drove a Ford in the 90's that was so cheap. Engine runs clean too. In fact the Oz government gived rebates for conversions. Sadly, I drive a diesel at the mo' which is more expensive that regular fuel for some strange reason. My neighbour runs his diesel on recycled cooking oil. You can smell him arriving!!