Depends. If people around me are self centered, yakky and nosy.....I'm a loner or I prefer to be. I have found wayyy too many people like this, unfortunately. People, even family, who never ask a question, don't inquire about me personally, my life or my thoughts.....just interested in monopolizing everything...I avoid. They just get on my nerves. Too, the JW thing has left me with some war wounds. I find it hard to trust and I probably question motives too much. And it's funny because when I was in high school and before I was a dub, I was voted "most popular" in my class
I stay close to those who truly love me but try to remain open for any opportunities to connect with others on a day to day basis. When it happens, and it does semi often, it's great.