I make sure I never get in a position to talk to a CO, DO, elder, brother, "mature" sister, etc.
This is what I do. I haven't gone to one of their interrogation sessions yet. Only once when they ambushed me outside my apartment did I speak with them. Remember that they are experts at fishing for info that can give them an excuse to begin a judicial investigation. If you give them nothing by keeping silent, even the accusations of others will generally not be enough to get you outed.
tsof