Babygirl
Hope all goes well and my thoughts are with you.
Sheri
i'm having a minor outpatient surgery in the morning in charlotte.
the hospital just called me and asked me how i felt about blood transfusions and if i had any religious beliefs that would hinder my medical care.
they still had listed from years and years ago, that i was a jw.
Babygirl
Hope all goes well and my thoughts are with you.
Sheri
i was 16 and not a clue in the world what i was getting into..... how about you?
how old were you?.
12
Sheri
were you ever treated by the elders, their families and "the friends" in a way that made you feel you were unwanted?.
there's probably nothing worse than realizing that you are not being treated with the same dignity and love as others.
once we come out of the organization, we expect better but sadly the real world can be cruel too.
Oh yeah, when I was in one hall one of my friends decided that she was mad at me and turned all of the young ones in the hall against me.
They treated me like I was disfellowshipped. It went on for quite some time until I had to go to the hospital for an emergency appendectomy
then she came up the hospital and told me she was sorry and wanted to be friends again. I forgave her, it takes a lot to look someone in the
face and say sorry.
But, I don't think the treatment was unusual. It happened at most halls. They have to be one of the meanest and unloving groups of people
I have ever met. "You will know my disciples by the love they have among themselves" what a crock!
i often times wonder what happened to certain bethelites that i ran around with during my 1990s tenure there.
while there are still a few left there, the greater majority of them aren't there for various reasons (marriage, disillusionment, left the borg, etc).
a couple of cats i wonder about - there was one brother who i believe was from kansas, who got his fingers cut off in a printing press.
Uninformed,
Yeah, I know that Jonathan Jones and Thad Jones. Jonathan (aka cherry John newby) was a real party animal. Always surfing and drinking. Crazy guy, lots of fun. Thad was quite a guy too, though haven't heard from him in about two years. Still serving the beast.
There were others that you failed to mention that were there (migh still be): Charles Sorrenson (aka Bods), Wade Burhaugher (spelling?), Dave White (one of Jonathan's roommates), Billy Edmett (spelling), Scott Creamer, Bob (aka Sprayer Bob) can't remember his last name, Tom Susko. So many others, just can't remember their names. Carissa Griffin and her husband, Richie Fisher ( who came home to get married but they made sure to commit fornication first and cover it up and then tell on themselves after their big fancy wedding and then act like they were gods gift to the congo. Never really got in trouble. Elders kid) Marty and Deborah Conners.
Always fun to know someone else knows.
Sheri
i was molested by a jw.
he was a young man about 19 yrs.old and he went to bethel after molesting me and i was only about 12 or 13 yrs.old.
i have never told anyone because i was so afraid of being disfellowshipped for letting this happen to me.
Deer
So glad that you are on your way out and sorry for the pain that you have had to deal with. There are many here who have, unfortunately, dealt with this same sort of abuse.
Please stay and vent or whatever you need to help you heal.
Sheri
just wanted to share with all a very nice article letter written in my moms newspaper:.
church of santa.
assassinations.
Just wanted to share with all a very nice article letter written in my moms newspaper:
Church of Santa
Assassinations. Invasions. Suicide attacks killing innocent and unknown men, women and children. All over the world it seems these things and
others just as ghastly are done by fanatics in the guise of some religious mandate, or by political leaders with the belssing of their god.
As for me, I've decided to become a follower of Santa Clause and I invite others to join me.
Santa Claus loves and values humanity. He doesn't discriminate. He doesn't torture or kill people. The primary purpose of his being is to bring joy,
comfort and happiness to others.
He makes one judgment of his fellow man: either you're naughty or nice. If you're naughty, you don't get any toys. Seems fair to me. Not too strict
--no torture or execution-- but certainly a good reason to be nice.
The world would be a much better place if we would all become followers of Santa. The current alternatives don't seem to be working.
Robert Kendrick
My mom shared this with me and I thought it would be a nice thing to share with everyone on here. It is a little late for wishing merry christmas and happy new year but...
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you all, anyway.
Sheri
don't take this the wrong way, this is purely out of curiousity.. .
assuming you are the working man who makes the money, and the wife stays at home and takes care of the house and cooks and does laundry and all that stuff.. no children!.
how much would it cost to hire someone(s) to do all those things instead?
I paid my husband to say that ;o)
Sheri
don't take this the wrong way, this is purely out of curiousity.. .
assuming you are the working man who makes the money, and the wife stays at home and takes care of the house and cooks and does laundry and all that stuff.. no children!.
how much would it cost to hire someone(s) to do all those things instead?
My wife is like a fine Picasso painting - Her value is immeasurable.
She works in the business with me, takes care of the house, our son, she has expensive taste but very rarely does she indulge her taste and half the time she does, she returns it within a week.
Loruhamahs Husband.
i was just thinking about this scripture in ecclesiastes 12:12 "to the making of many books there is no end , and much devotion to them is wearisome to the flesh.".
the borg loves to use this scripture when people talk about higher education or taking in knowledge to better themselves.
but, here is the conundrum, what is it that ever dub looks forward to at the annual district conventions?
So true.
Sheri
after today i really have to tell you that it was so sweet to come here and see that i had something that someone likes.
i needed that.
i can say for everything you like, there is something in each one of you i am sure i see that i admire back and if not, i have not yet spent any time with you.
Sparky
How sweet of you to think of saying something so nice about everyone. If I could just apply that in my life--- I mean to say and think nice things and then somehow get off track and get negative again.
We really do need to get together again. It was really great meeting you and you are so full of life and spark. Let me know when you have an open day. I don't mind driving.
Sheri