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  No education. Not just to avoid critical thinking

  by StarTrekAngel in

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  2. bible

  i was listening to my brother in law talk about his job this week.

  he had a stable job for a long time.

  it was not without problems but it was there.

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  It also helps to create that barrier that furthers indoctrination.

  The difference in language is something that I struggle with too. Many of those that I work and sometimes hang out with (college educated people) feel the need to curse like sailors at times. I still struggle with accepting expletives as part of normal language and using them myself. When I'm reading something online to my wife, I routinely change curse words to something less vulgar even though I know she doesn't have a problem with the curse words. I can see how this serves to keep us separate, create a barrier between us and non-JWs, and gives us a superiority complex.

  Interestingly, an elder in my hall was assigned overseas for many years and sh*t was used locally as the non-vulgar word, but caca or poop were seen as vulgar. He had to get used to using sh*t in everyday language.
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  July Broadcast Scriptural Error- FDS/Helper Fail.

  by Hold Me-Thrill Me in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  he has inadvertently moved the timing of the beginning of the last days to the future.

  this kind of scriptural error is the direct result of superficial bible reading.

  according to luke 21, first comes the persecution then the wars, earthquakes, food shortages, fearful sights etc.

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  Awesome find! Maybe I can use this when my wife and I watch the broadcast. Thanks!
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  Women and Heaven.

  by John Aquila in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  the desire to have the company of a beautiful woman is so great, that angels were willing to leave heaven for a few forbidden moments of touching, kissing, and caressing---and then be destroyed..

  genesis 6:2 (gnt) some of the heavenly beings saw that these young women were beautiful, so they married any woman they chose..

  by the way, whats wrong with marriage?.

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  I have a friend who is partially waiting until the new system to get married because he reckons that perfect women have to be extremely gorgeous since their beauty seduced the angels.
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  A difficult yet necessary decision

  by Brother Jeramy in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  the past five weeks have been perhaps the most painful in my life as a witness.. some months ago a young man (i'd say in his late thirties or early forties) began attending meetings at my kingdom hall.

  he had just moved to my area from another state.

  he had disassociated himself from his home congregation many years back, when he was 20 years old and going through many of the typical trials and temptations most young men experience.. two of the elders met with him initially, and they later shared the details with the body of elders.

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  Chapter 11 par 3 of the Flock book states:

  3. The committee should be careful to allow sufficient time, perhaps many months, a year, or even longer, for the disfellowshipped person to prove that his profession of repentance is genuine.

  It doesn't specifically say 6 months, but it's obviously implied that 6 months would be a minimum. In the last decade, I've not seen anyone reinstated in anything less than a year.

  During the time I was df'd, I did research about the time between writing of 1 Cor and 2 Cor and I had hoped that since the letters were written in the same year and that my sin couldn't be any worse than the one mentioned in 1 Cor 5 that I would be reinstated in less than a year.

  Nope, didn't happen.
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  A difficult yet necessary decision

  by Brother Jeramy in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  the past five weeks have been perhaps the most painful in my life as a witness.. some months ago a young man (i'd say in his late thirties or early forties) began attending meetings at my kingdom hall.

  he had just moved to my area from another state.

  he had disassociated himself from his home congregation many years back, when he was 20 years old and going through many of the typical trials and temptations most young men experience.. two of the elders met with him initially, and they later shared the details with the body of elders.

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  BTW, it's this same policy along with some other destructive policies (higher ed, child abuse) that will eventually lead to me no longer attending as well. I'm going for now to keep up appearances and to allow me to introduce my wife to the darker side of WT. I know if I quit cold turkey that she'll no longer view me as her spiritual head and I'll lose an important advantage. If it becomes clear that I've hit an impasse, I will fade on my own.

  DA for me is not the answer as I'd forever lose any ability to inject doubt to family/friends. I don't want to play by their rules and give all my friends/family an out for not associating with me.
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  A difficult yet necessary decision

  by Brother Jeramy in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  the past five weeks have been perhaps the most painful in my life as a witness.. some months ago a young man (i'd say in his late thirties or early forties) began attending meetings at my kingdom hall.

  he had just moved to my area from another state.

  he had disassociated himself from his home congregation many years back, when he was 20 years old and going through many of the typical trials and temptations most young men experience.. two of the elders met with him initially, and they later shared the details with the body of elders.

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  Being DF'd and the hoops I had to jump through to be reinstated is one of the things that always stuck in the back of my mind and probably led to many more doubts. There were brothers who were not elders (I think they were MS's) who were so much more compassionate to me than the elders were. When I was helping my parents with their house and these brothers were there helping as well, they actually treated me like a person and took the opportunity to express encouragement for my continuing to come to meetings. In contrast, the elders who df'd me (I moved back in with my parents and to my home congregation after being df'd) wouldn't even consider first request as they felt that my returning home was like running away and not facing up to my punishment. I was reinstated on the 2nd attempt, although I think the BOE at my home congregation did some strong lobbying.

  I once heard someone say that a person who is df'd never returns to the spirituality they had before. I now understand that. I could not return to my prior level of spirituality because I couldn't reconcile how this arrangement was loving and ok. Prior to being df'd, I viewed disfellowshipping as most JWs do- a loving arrangement, a protection for the congregation and a way to shock the sinner to repentance. After experiencing it for myself, it was so harsh and cruel that it stuck with me that disfellowshipping is not a loving arrangement. I vowed that if I was ever an elder and part of a JC I would never agree to df someone.

  I still couldn't question my beliefs because of my emotional attachment to family and friends, but had this not happened I may have never woke up.
  
  
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  Apathy trollies in my city.

  by punkofnice in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  is it me or are people giving them a wide berth?.

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  I'm to receive "training" to have the "privilege" of manning one of these carts soon. What a joke! I'm only looking forward to it because it is way easier and will pain my conscience less than knocking on doors. At least while I'm still stuck-in, it'll make my service a little easier.

  The strange thing is that, at least in my area, it seems that each person/group is only allowed to man the cart for an hour at a time. I don't know if it's local ordinance, direction from the branch, or something that the local BOE decided. Maybe when I get the training I'll be enlightened.
  
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  OMG They are right here in River City!

  by myway2007 in

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  2. friends

  jacksonville, fl - the local newspaper had an article on the convention going on for the next two weekends.

  while i could not find the article, i was able to find this slide show of this weekend's events.

  the newspaper article was interesting as it discussed what a wonderful job they were doing cleaning the arena seats and bathrooms and everyone was enjoying their job.

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  Numbers 4 - 8 - 12 - 16- were blank screens ? Anybody else have this problem ?
  smiddy

  Those were ads. If you have an ad blocker on, they appear blank. I turned mine off to verify... yep ads.
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  The "generation", how long, oh Jeehoober???

  by DATA-DOG in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  how long till the wtbts gets wise and reverts to boozerford's more plausible explanation of "generation"??

  let's "face the facts" ( lol!!!

  ) and admit that this is the best explanation that the wtbts ever had.

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  oppostatean hour ago-

  Jinx Timelord you owe me a beer.

  Great minds think alike!

  If you find yourself in SC or I'm up in MA, I will buy you that beer.
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  Watchtower's Works

  by Hold Me-Thrill Me in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  they take our trust our love our youth our family our friends our life our hopes our happiness our children our parents our vitality our minds our hearts.

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  then they kill us.

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  They take our trust our love our youth our family our friends our life our hopes our happiness our children our parents our vitality our minds our hearts.

  Then they Kill Us.

  That's what they claim Satan does to those that leave. How funny and sad it is to see it now from the other side...