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  Pepsi or coke?

  by Evanescence in

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  which do you like better pepsi or coke?.

  evanescence *wish there were voting polls on this forum

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  trouble making real friends

  by dezpbem in

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  we push people away and keep them at a distance out of fear.

  fear of getting close again.

  many ex-jw's have an odd habit of pushing people away.

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  Isolated & disconnected once outside

  by enosant in

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  is this a common issue for exjws?

  or do you find it easy to just get on with it?

  having lost all the jw friends, you find that you can't bring yourself to let others get too close, even pushing them away (old habbit dying hard).

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  WHAT IS POPULAR RIGHT NOW THAT YOU CAN'T STAND?

  by stillAwitness in

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  what's real popular right now that you just cannot stand.

  1. desperate housewives-no offense but a bunch of middle aged women running around having sex?

  2. beyonce!

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  Did you read ..........THAT........book...............

  by vitty in

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  .............. coc, of course.

  when you were still in the org, or when you had already left.. i read it when i was still in and it had a profound effect on me.. lets take a poll .

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  What Decisions Did You Make Only Because You Were A Witness?

  by minimus in

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  i believe that most jws are deep down inside angry over the fact that they went along with the status quo and the majority just to be accepted.

  some witnesses would like to have a tattoo, a mustache, a shaved head, a beard, a new red sportscar, etc.

  but they don't because they would be viewed as "immature".

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  Intro- any ex-jw's from nyc?

  by dezpbem in

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  hi my name is desi.

  i'm an ex-jw from the bronx.

  just thought i'd intro myself to the group.. are there any other ex-jw's here from nyc?.

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  Feeling sooo isolated.....

  by Michelle5480 in

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  hello to all, i was raised pretty much as a jw and became one of the super goodie two shoes type, you know......didnt even swear when i was alone.. im now disfellowshipped and since i followed the guideline of not having friends outside the organization i now find myself completely alone, my friends are all jw's and none of them can talk to me.

  so now i feel lost....on another planet almost .

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  shallow men

  by Ellie in

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  please tell me that not all men are only interested in the size of a girls chest.. come on you men, restore my faith in males.

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  Where are you on the map? New Maps

  by Lady Lee in

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  ok there are so many americans on the map now i had to split you all in half.. valis was kind enough to let me place the maps on his website until i found a new home for them.. photobucket seems to be a good option - at least for now.

  so i have uploaded the new maps which have been updated to include everyone who has asked.. so if you were wondering where we are from.

  or how close you are to other jwd posters in your area just take a look.

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