Posts by copsec

I used to be extremely jealous (hmm, wonder if that was cause my ex cheated on me left and right) LOL! But the guy I am married to now, I just drove him nuts at first with my jealousy. Then I sat back and took a long look at things and decided I could nag him, follow him, demand him to let me go places with him and piss him off or I could just let him go. After all, if someone wants to cheat they will find a way. So, I let him be him and it's worked pretty well and I am not all that jealous anymore. Still have my moments once in awhile but not as bad. As I sit typing this my hubby is at a bar he goes to for lunch every day with the guys he works with judging a titty contest!

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My friend and co-worker dead.

by Steve Lowry in

jw
friends

his name was robert thigpin and i worked with him for eight years (1990-1998).

last night he killed himself.

while we didn't always see things eye to eye, i could always count on him and he was a good co-worker.

copsec

Steve,

BIG HUGS! So sorry to hear.

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Co-worker Died

by simplesally in

jw
friends

a couple of weeks ago, one of the nicest men in the world passed out at work at one of our other stores.

his airway was blocked by cartilege (sp?

) build-up in his trachea.

copsec

Sally,

Yes, I can understand. I am pissed off right now! This man and his wife were two of the best people I have EVER known in my life and to lose them both within 4 1/2 months is just crushing. And God "needs" them??? What BULLSHIT!

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Co-worker Died

by simplesally in

jw
friends

a couple of weeks ago, one of the nicest men in the world passed out at work at one of our other stores.

his airway was blocked by cartilege (sp?

) build-up in his trachea.

copsec

Sally,

Sorry to hear about your friend. As you know, i just went through it too and if there was one thing that REALLY pissed me off it was that "it was his time to go crap!" Where do people get that? ERGH! And if there is such a thing, WHY? Why when there are so many a**holes in the world, do the good people have to go? If there is a God, doesn't he already have ENOUGH good people? As you can probably tell, I am having a rough time with this one. I hope your friend's family find some comfort somewhere and that you do too.

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My friend's i need your help more then ever.

by kls in

i asked my husband for a divorce yesterday.

after he threw a plate full of food and a cup of coffee it went pretty well, especially after he left, but came back four hrs.

i have pretty hard questions i need your help with ,the first is what do i say when he keeps telling me that he leaves me alone a jws?

copsec

KLS,

A BIG HUG to you! I have been in your shoes and I know it's hard now but it WILL get better. PM me if you want and we can talk.

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Where Would You Most Like To Visit?

by Swan in

jw
friends

with millions of people traveling this memorial day weekend i am curious.. where are you going this weekend?

where would you go if time and money were not obstacles?.

i am going camping in the forest near the oregon coast.

copsec

Alaska, Italy, France, Germany, Englad and Ireland. I think I have seen everything in the States that I want to see.

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Are You JW/ Inactive/Fading/Gone.........?

by ScoobySnax in

jw
friends

"sitting on the fence" "leading a double life" or just a fader.

its strange i envy both jws and exjws, after all each have a clear direction of where their lives are headed.

they have a definate view of how they feel, what they think, where they're going, what they are.

copsec

I just told them to DF me and I never looked back and I can only say that was THE BEST decision I have ever made in my life beyond a shadow of a doubt. Ya know Scoob, you don't have to be a part of a church to get the answer to life's questions. I have found that just believing that there is a higher power gives me the strength to look into my heart and mind when I have questions and I always find an answer that works for me. Good Luck in your search and don't let anyone make the decision for you but yourself.