Wait, wait, wait!! I want to say something!
Your father is a bully. Your husband is able to put his professional life into perspective and deal with confrontation pragmatically. But its his father in laws' daughter he's emotionally involved with so....there's a whole other dynamic going on.
In my experience, in order for your fathers personality to UNDERSTAND 'jam it up your arse (ass)' i have had a lot of success with being annoyingly passive. Don't turn up, be vague, don't reply to questions and laugh inappropriately.
Failing that, 'phone the elders and tell them to get him off your back.
Good luck!
Pete
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What could they be wanting now?
by Schism inok, so you know about my parents' and my email exchange.
mom said come to meetings, i was genuine with her and told her why i don't, mom replies with denial of what she just read (like i am a confused baby), then i replied with an email that absolutely takes care of everything.
from evolution vs creation, to the bible, to jehovah, and the wts.
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"Apostates end up bitter and angry"
by XBEHERE ini actually attended the bookstudy on friday, don't ask me why.
anyway the revelation book is being considered and we're at the paragraph where the congregation in ephesus is comended for "not bearing bad men.." apostates.. .
the comments from the ones attending were so baised and ignorant.
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Yes, jgnat, why not take that chap out for a coffee in the new year!
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Talk with ex-elder friend after 30 years
by Fatfreek inmy letter to danny should sum it up.
i'll follow this post with a group photo.
hi danny, .
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I enjoyed reading your other two letters too Fats.
The term 'mother' when referring to the WBTS didn't seem to get used down here but I've noticed various posters of a certain age say they used it. Was 'mother' widespread ? And how did this maternal term fit in within the context of a 'heavenly family'. I mean, I can understand 'heavenly father' or 'son'. The 'bride of Christ' But was 'mother' ever sanctioned by the Org. as acceptable Witness-speak?
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King of the North & South
by prophecor inin times past, who was regarded as the king of the north and south?
was it really the soviet union?
now that it is basically non- existent who are those kings supposed to be now?.
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" NEW LIGHT: THE KON IS CANADA AND THE KOS IS AUSTRALIA - ARMAGEDDON TO BE FOUGHT
IN NEW ZEALAND (LOTS OF SHEEP AND GOATS THERE!) "
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My real childhood experience
by Junction-Guy infollks im gonna have to post this in increments as my webtv is acting up, i had a big post already started and then it went haywire.
should i blame it on the demons?
trying to shut me up?
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G'night junction-guy. See you in the morning.
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King of the North & South
by prophecor inin times past, who was regarded as the king of the north and south?
was it really the soviet union?
now that it is basically non- existent who are those kings supposed to be now?.
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"Was it really the Soviet Union?"
We used to bang on a lot about this subject in the '80s. The KoN was the godless communistic powers according to JW dogma. Now I can't get a sensible answer out of anyone about the new light if there is any. -
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Bulletin Board versus Information Board
by mavie indoes anyone know why the bulletin board at the back of most us kingdom halls is called an information board?
i called it a bb once from the platform and was corrected.
i've also heard the same from others.
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This is a question that comes up from time to time on JWD. I think the term 'bulletin board' is more commonly used in the US. Over here, (NZ) , we usually call it a notice board.
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NEW LIGHT ! Wedding Rings!!!!!!!!!
by bigmouth indoes this sound right to you????!!!!!
to all congregations; .
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If someone with only two years secondary education and a mental illness can write a spoof like this, imagine the qualifications the writing staff at HQ must have!
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NEW LIGHT ! Wedding Rings!!!!!!!!!
by bigmouth indoes this sound right to you????!!!!!
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I thought it was interesting that the early Protestant Puritans, the Quakers and 19th century Seventh Day Adventists reject the wedding ring as pagan. The JW's arbitrariness continues to amaze me.
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NEW LIGHT ! Wedding Rings!!!!!!!!!
by bigmouth indoes this sound right to you????!!!!!
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You're right Wozza. The letter seems entirely plausible and uses the same reasoning that would prevent a Witness from celebrating birthdays or toasting!--see WT Feb. 15th, 2007 for a real self-indictment.
Pete