Forgive your mother, she is brainwashed and knows not what she does.
Skeeter1
p.s. If you live in North Georgia, please, please, please go to North Point Community Church. It's about 13,000+ members. You will not be "fresh meat" and no one would even know you. There are no "crosses" in the building, and you will be very comfortable there. The main speaker, Andy Stanley, is refreshing. The church's message is about building a reasonable, loving, and forgiving relationship with God. It helped me get out of the JWs, and I encourage it to all. http://www.northpoint.org/
The Society teaches you a conditional love with Jehovah. If you go out in service 10 hours a week or do X,Y, and Z, then you are in Jehovah's graces. It's about doing, doing, doing, and not about relationships, relaxing, and enjoying God. I find that my family members who are still JWs treat me according to what I "do" for them and not for "who" I really am. As long as I "do" what they want, they loved me. If I don't "do" what they want, then the cold shoulder comes my way.
What I am trying to say is that how we view God determines how we treat each other. Your mother has learned to model her relationships with you, as the Society has modeled Jehovah towards the JWs. It's an unforgiving, fear based "relationship."