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  Happiness

  by Blueblades in

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  no aspect of life is more desired, more elusive, and more perplexing than happiness.

  people wish and strive for what they believe will make them happy i.e, good health, attractive looks, an ideal marriage, children, a comfortable home, success, fame, financial independence, the list goes on and on.

  ( add your own ).

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  Spectrum

  Happiness could be being content with what you have got. I have mood swings.
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  Girls......Should you have your cake and eat it? Booty call

  by Spectrum in

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  i was talking to a female aquaintance the other day and in one breath she was telling me that it's great when she goes out salsa dancing because apart from enjoying the music she never has to buy her own drink as there is a constant stream of guys buying for her and then in another breath she was complaining that they annoy her because they are just after a bit of arse.

  now i've seen the way this girl dresses on a normal day i can't imagine what she puts on when she goes out.

  btw she does have great booty.

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  "Spectrum what does dignified mean? Looking like a Jehovah's Witness?"
  
  Not at all. You don't have to have a religious bias to recognise a dignified woman.
  
  Dignified means dresses sensibly no need to have her tits and arse hanging out, means she is not looking to save money on drinks and will offer to buy too.
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  Words witlesses hate.

  by vomit in

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  there have been plenty of threads where ye list words that witnesses love to use all the time.

  oh god.

  lets start whith a few that i know they dont like and identify if a person is apostate or not.

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  University
  philosophy
  shag
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  Girls......Should you have your cake and eat it? Booty call

  by Spectrum in

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  i was talking to a female aquaintance the other day and in one breath she was telling me that it's great when she goes out salsa dancing because apart from enjoying the music she never has to buy her own drink as there is a constant stream of guys buying for her and then in another breath she was complaining that they annoy her because they are just after a bit of arse.

  now i've seen the way this girl dresses on a normal day i can't imagine what she puts on when she goes out.

  btw she does have great booty.

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  MsMcDucket,
  
  " Buy you a $5. drink and think they own you! "
  
  I think the issue here is, women that dress provocatively then complain about all the attention they get from men.
  
  These $5 men are just playing a game. It's up to you to play along. I imagine these guys attitude is if you are going to play then play otherwise move along I've only got $30 in my pocket and about 2 or 3 hours to score. Personally I never buy women drinks unless they look dignified or are friends.
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  Girls......Should you have your cake and eat it? Booty call

  by Spectrum in

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  i was talking to a female aquaintance the other day and in one breath she was telling me that it's great when she goes out salsa dancing because apart from enjoying the music she never has to buy her own drink as there is a constant stream of guys buying for her and then in another breath she was complaining that they annoy her because they are just after a bit of arse.

  now i've seen the way this girl dresses on a normal day i can't imagine what she puts on when she goes out.

  btw she does have great booty.

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  lylil,
  
  "Women know exactly the kind of power they have over men when they flaunt their sexuality, so they should not complain later. "
  
  well said.
  
  " so I have always had to be conscious of what I wear on top - or no man is going to listen to me or take what I am saying seriously, he will be too busy oggling my boobies."
  
  Did you manage to get them to listen?!
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  Girls......Should you have your cake and eat it? Booty call

  by Spectrum in

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  i was talking to a female aquaintance the other day and in one breath she was telling me that it's great when she goes out salsa dancing because apart from enjoying the music she never has to buy her own drink as there is a constant stream of guys buying for her and then in another breath she was complaining that they annoy her because they are just after a bit of arse.

  now i've seen the way this girl dresses on a normal day i can't imagine what she puts on when she goes out.

  btw she does have great booty.

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  BritBoy,
  
  I had a similar situation at work many years ago. A new colleague would come into work wearing whatever the hell it was that really made her breast stand out, I mean it was almost unnatural. Well, I couldn't help but be distracted by them. Of course she noticed and rolled her eyes whenever I looked!! She was OK about it overall and eventually I got used to these hooters being in my face every day!
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  Girls......Should you have your cake and eat it? Booty call

  by Spectrum in

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  i was talking to a female aquaintance the other day and in one breath she was telling me that it's great when she goes out salsa dancing because apart from enjoying the music she never has to buy her own drink as there is a constant stream of guys buying for her and then in another breath she was complaining that they annoy her because they are just after a bit of arse.

  now i've seen the way this girl dresses on a normal day i can't imagine what she puts on when she goes out.

  btw she does have great booty.

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  Serendipity,
  
  "We women want both respect and attention"
  
  So you are saying you want your cake and eat it!!
  Provocative sexy dressing provokes. It's that simple. If you like what's on display in the window you go for it. If you are not selling then don't display.
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  BIG Moral Crisis.....

  by justsomedude in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  (if anything i write below is horrible offensive to anyone, please do me a favor and just ignore this post and dont tell me what rotten person i am and im going to hell or some such thing)

  over the last few years ive had to change a great many views that ive previously been very emphatic about.

  there are a number of things that are currently running through my head, the short list looks like this.

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  justsomedude,
  
  one indiscretion isn't the end of the world.
  The woman is married, walk away. Find someone else. Maybe she is as great as you say she is but then again how much of her greatness is due to you wanting what you can't have.
  
  I had a boss that was flirting with me no end when I first started working for her. She put me on her team from another team just for this purpose. Anyways, we go out have a great time then she introduces me to her daughter, Ok I say, she is a single mother looking for after-work fun. We say our goodnights (nothing happens) I walk home wandering what happened. She calls me that weekend to go and stay with her at her beach apartment. I get on that train and meet her in her little Med seaside town. I was very excited as to what was going to happen that day - she was a real Italian babe. We go up to her penthouse and standing there to greet me is her husband :(
  I managed to very quickly turn my grimace into a smile. I felt bad that I had sexual thoughts about this guys wife.
  
  To cut a long story short my boss basically had an issue with still wanting to feel attracted to the younger guy. That was all, she never had any intentions of going all the way. Her husband knew this about his wife. Of course I lost complete interest when I found out she was married. Married women just don't float my boat. The second time she invited me, her husband was very cold and aggressive towards.
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  Girls......Should you have your cake and eat it? Booty call

  by Spectrum in

  1. social
  2. current

  i was talking to a female aquaintance the other day and in one breath she was telling me that it's great when she goes out salsa dancing because apart from enjoying the music she never has to buy her own drink as there is a constant stream of guys buying for her and then in another breath she was complaining that they annoy her because they are just after a bit of arse.

  now i've seen the way this girl dresses on a normal day i can't imagine what she puts on when she goes out.

  btw she does have great booty.

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  Spectrum

  I was talking to a female aquaintance the other day and in one breath she was telling me that it's great when she goes out salsa dancing because apart from enjoying the music she never has to buy her own drink as there is a constant stream of guys buying for her and then in another breath she was complaining that they annoy her because they are just after a bit of arse. Now I've seen the way this girl dresses on a normal day I can't imagine what she puts on when she goes out. BTW she does have great booty. MAMA!! J-Lo eat your heart out.
  
  Now the question is should she be complaining?
  The thing is, women should know that dressing provocatively, accentuating their curves and showing lots of skin in the right places is only going to have one effect on us guys, so why complain when the desired effect takes effect?
  
  I never dress provocatively, all my male friends never dress provocatively. Why do women? Then call us perverts for having a good look.
  
  What is this all about?
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  the lion will eat straw like the lamb...

  by DannyBloem in

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  or something like that.. i think not any one real sund in mind can believe this unquestionably.. anyway, what is ths current point of view of the jw's on this?.

  is is so, that they also believe that in the time of adam and before it was literal like this?.

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  Spectrum

  Has anybody seen an octapus take out a crab or star fish. It's maccabre. The octapus restrains these animals bites through their shell and injects them with poison. Imagine if somoeone took a slice of our skull then injected our brain with poison.
  
  What about the wasp that debilitates other insects with a non lethal poison then lays it's eggs inside the comatosed insect then when the eggs hatch they eat their still living host from the inside out. I think JWs need to rethink the nature of the God they worship.