Peaches, I guess this is as good a time as any to briefly recount how I came to be disfellowshipped.
Briefly:
After three years of complete inactivity (no field service, no meetings, no Memorials, no weddings, no JW functions of any kind), two elders stopped by my house under the pretense of inviting me to the (year) 2000 Memorial. I said thanks, but no thanks. They then remarked, 'Well, the REAL reason we're here is there is a judicial hearing scheduled on Saturday evening regarding the possible disfellowshipping of you and we'd like for you to attend.' My reaction was, to paraphrase, 'You mean I invited you men into my house, and you have the stones to tell me this? By the way, how can you dis-fellowship me when I am not even fellowshipping!"
The official reason for my DF'ing was because I had been seen associating with another DF'd fellow, a friend of mine at the time (we no longer see each other). So I arrived at the judicial hearing with my DF'd friend, and the elders asked, "What is he doing here?" I replied by stating that he was my witness, and that he was going to testify that at no time, under any circumstances, had he ever associated with me at all and the accusation made me against me was lies! Lies, I say!
The elders didn't think it was funny and made him sit in the coatroom.
They began the judicial proceeding and I spoke up and said, 'Hold on a second. I've read the Flock book. I happen to know I'm allowed a statement before the proceedings begin.' So they allowed me to read it, which basically consisted of me telling them I wouldn't recognize the "authority" of the council I was sitting before, and I ended with a scripture from Proverbs 18:24, which reads:
"There exist companions disposed to break one another to pieces, but there exists a friend sticking closer than a brother."
I said to them, 'You all wish to break me to pieces, but my friend out there is sticking close to me like a real brother."
Got DF'd anyway. But at least I got my point across.
Edited to change a typo: the word "and" for the mistakening typed "at"