I can relate to all of you guys that have said you are best friends with your mate. Our interests are completely different too. We have awesome chemistry and self awareness. We are very comfortable doing our own thing or going out together. We argue like crazy over simple things, like putting up a tent. lol
He buys me "womens things" at times and is very comfortable, yet he can still be a mans man and has just gone on a 5 day bucks "weekend" surfing, golfing and drinking beer.
I just realised I love him more with every moment that goes by. (Except when I hate his guts because he's an insensitive selfish a-hole)