I grew up in a traditional JW home. I can tell you that I would not stand for my father to treat me the way he treated my mother.
Then I married a JW man and it was horrible.
Now I'm engaged to a Baptist.
The Baptist has it right -- he follows the Bible's guidance but its more like he wants to take care of me. And I want to take care of him .. and it works. With the JWs, they are just dominate but don't "love their wives as themselves" and treat her "as a weaker vessel" ..
Its not the Bible -- Its the JWs that have screwed it up.