JK666:
This is one of my biggest regrets, is two studies that I had are still in, One is an elder, the other one is working on it. I feel responsible for getting them into that cult. Now I am out, and can't help them because I am DF'ed and shunned.
I wish I were half-assed about the ministry back then.
Again, as with my response to oompa, I beg to differ.
I can't count the number of people I "helped" to become, or stay, JWs. But that was what I was at the time, with the best understanding I had at the time. Was I a fool? Yes! But was I an honest fool? Yes.
imvho, beating ourselves up for what we did that we thought was right is useless, and self-defeating.
Our compensation to our fellow human beings is best served by being honest about what we did, and why we did it...and then know that each person we impacted must live with the consequences of their own decisions.