Here is my take: When I was 8 years old, my dad cheated on my mom and it was hell. Now I'm not saying that you should stop because after I found out what happened, and yes I was 8 years old thinking that my parents should break up. I didn't like the fact that they stuck together. I think my dad should've left - I knew they would've been happier and I didn't understand why they were staying together if they didn't love each other anyway. My parents found the religion and now they love each other very much, but I dont think they should've been together. Now, if you aren't going to tell your partners then you need to stop having the affair because it will only hurt the love that you will give your other families because you are preoccupied with each other and not 100% there for your families, or you should tell your families and have it out in the open. I am sorry that you are in this situation, but sometimes you can't help who you love. Good luck to you! ~CG
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Help - I'm in love with a JW!
by LookingIn inand i am not a jw.
from what i gather reading this site that makes me "worldly".
anyway, i am embarrassed to say we are both married and have children.
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Has this happened to you?? Unfair compensation practices
by littlerockguy ini interviewed and hired someone this week to fill a position in my department.
then i am going to have to fill two more positions in my dept.
i emailed hr and told them to process the paperwork.
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collegegirl21
I'm sorry LRG... I hope everything works out for you. Just stick in it until you're done with your plans :). And then see if you can find something better! I miss talking with you! Have a great day hon.
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new girl (sort of)
by bebe57 inhey everyone.... i dont really know what to say, here i am, i guess.
i was raised as a jw in a very small town, and da'd myself when i was 15, because i just didn't care about meetings.
im now in my early twenties.
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collegegirl21
Welcome Bebe! :)
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Why? Why? Why???
by zeroday inwhy do we press harder on a remote control when we know the batteries are getting weak?
why do banks charge a fee on "insufficient funds" when they know there is not enough?
why does someone believe you when you say there are four billion stars, but check when you say the paint is wet?
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collegegirl21
LMAO - These are very true... lol
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If you still pray, what do you get out of it?
by JH in.
once in a while, not often, i might fell like saying a few words to god in prayer, but i don't do it, knowing that it's a waste of time, because it won't make a difference..
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collegegirl21
I think that God hears what we have to say. I think you just have to find a place to believe or something to believe in.
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collegegirl21
Happy Birthday! I can't see the pic either! Hopefully its something you want!
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Dr Jekyll, Unclebruce
by lola28 in.
i think i'm going to stalk you two, you are both so funny, you always make me laugh, sooooooo yeah, i think i will stalk you.. .
lola
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collegegirl21
I'm game! Sounds like fun!
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How to get DFed
by Threestars ini read something hilarious a few years ago at one of these forums.
go to an assembly...stand up and horse around during the session until the ushers take notice.
when they hold up those little signs they have saying something like "please take your seat" hold up your own sign that says, "please kiss my ass".
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collegegirl21
I'll have to remember that for the 3 day convention... although I don't think they have those signs anymore. Lol!
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Just Finished CoC
by lost_light06 inwell, i just finished crisis of conscience (except for the appendix).
really eye opening!
i wasnt sure if i was going to like the chapters describing his expulsion but he seemed to present it fairly and extremely accurately.
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collegegirl21
Wow, I know what you mean. Its a terrible thing to think that you were a part of something that took family and friends away from you. I need to finish reading the book, lol.
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collegegirl21
Nope, I'd rather eat dog poop.