Sometimes people are just miserable, misery loves company, don't let it get you down. At least you can speak another language, you should be proud!
***Nikki***
what the heck is wrong with some ppl?
i went to get lunch at my normal place, everyone there is hispanic and they all speak english.
today i walk in and start to order my food in english but the girl that was there to take my order replied in spanish so i just started to speak in spanish.
....change in order to be qualified for baptism (as a dub).
shave his beard.
cut his hair.
....change in order to be qualified for baptism (as a dub).
shave his beard.
cut his hair.
....change in order to be qualified for baptism (as a dub).
shave his beard.
cut his hair.
jordon is hebrew and it means "to descend or flow"....ha~!
not very interesting, .
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i recently went to a wedding and the father of the bride that (re)married a (worldly) man said to me, "the only thing that i can say about raising our kids as witnesses was at least they got a good foundation.
look at our kids.
they're good kids".
the practice of shunning really is, unreservedly, my main problem with the religion.
i have come to this conclusion after many months out of the org.
there are, of course many, many other things that just pi$$ me off about the religion but this just gets to me, each and every day i live.. and yet, i have never experienced shunning in the manner in which is well documented here.
I left almost 15 years ago, just 18. I was an only child, and I had to be strong and leave. There was a period before I was announced at the hall that I was DFd, that I would get 20-25 calls a day when I retuned home from work, my friends, my parents wanting me to reconsider my decision. It was a shock to the congregation because I was the good little witness. But, once I was DFd. No calls anymore. It hurt alot but I expected it. The shunning thing pains me too, but as time went on, I felt alot better about it. I am sure I hurt my parents when I left but they hurt me too. My dad and I have not seen eachother in 15 years and has never met his 9 amd 7 year old grandchildren. My mom and I did not see each other for 8 years until she came to her senses and left the org too, she was DFd also. But, those early years (right out of the org) were extremely tough. I year after I left, I received an opportunity to move to Colorado, and that was great, I started my life over. It was refreshing. I eventually moved back to Illinois, for my daughter so she could know her family. I can only say that TIME healed most.
Nikki
since most of us on this board have left the org for one reason or another, do you still feel a sense of spirituality to the great spirit?.
if so how?
if not why?.
No I do not consider that I am a spiritual person. I really do not know if this is good or bad thing, but I feel I do not have to have all my questions answered. I think about spirituality, or being spiritual, then it reminds me of being a Jehovahs Witness. Then I think about something else...
Nikki
i know a lot of christians, not just jws, don't feel comfortable celebrating halloween.
for me, it's just an excuse to have fun.
are there a lot of you out there who have fun on halloween?
my husband's company throws a big xmas party in vegas every year and we are going to go.
i have never been to a xmas party so i have nooooo idea what you wear and not sure how to act.
please help!
I also say, "WORK IT", and have a blast. Start looking for a dress now and have fun with it. What I do at my husbands Xmas party every year, Ive been going to his for 6 years now (except this year I am pregnant), I always balance glasses of wine and bottles of beer on my head (seriously), to make a memory. Every year everyone knows me as the girl who can balance stuff on her head, I think its nice to be remembered this way. I am sure it will be a bummer this year, people will assume I won't do it because I will only be drinking water, little do they know!!! Its truly one of my hidden talents...lol.
Nikki