what do you want from your husband/wife or bf/gf??
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what do you give?.
Well, to answer that question, because I realize I said that 2x in my list (Ha, I guess I am proud of that), yes because I would not be in a realtionship married or not, and not "take care" of my man (sorry for sounding sort of cheezy), thats part of the fun of it, you know? I feel its extrememly important, but not everything, yet I stress, extremely important.
Nikki
mine would have to be "dark days are here!
men live in fear!....
" followed by the annoying change to a happy beat before the chorus "but the bible gives us a reason for cheer.." .
"From house to house, from door to door, Jehovahs word blah blah..."
"He says use the rod" was one of the lines, my mom would always look at me during this part....
Nikki
what do you want from your husband/wife or bf/gf??
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what do you give?.
Ok, this is my second marriage, I think I got it right the 2nd time...
1. My hubby is a bit of an ass, and I like it therefore I show understanding in this department
2. I tickle him (lightly) wherever he wants (this is his favorite)
3. I let him be who he wants to be, I guess this goes with # 1
4. I take care of him when I can, in all aspects but sometimes I can't take care of him, therefore there are more "make up" sessions to take of him
5. There is a true attraction to my hubby, man I think hes sexy!
6. I had his child (baby girl) on 2/5/07
7. I kiss him alot
8. I "take care" of him alot if you know what I mean
9. I laugh at him alot, we laugh alot together
I could go on and on. Hey, no relationship is perfect, but in this life time, I am truly grateful for my happiness.
Nikki
just thought i'd do something i always wanted too.
mr c always said he's dump me if i had a tattoo, well we're not together anymore so i can and i am!
richie or those in the know - how much pain can i expect to look forward to?.
Oh, how fun Crumpet, your getting a tatoo. Despite what Kerj said, I have a tatoo on the "tramp" part of my back and I love it. I also have one around my belly button. Actually, I had a baby (horrible life started a thread about me having baby) 2/5/07. My belly tatoo is a simple sun outline with some orange outline, it got about 8 inches in diameter while I was prego, within one week, the tatoo shrunk, back to its normal size and it looks the same as when I had it done in the 1st place. I can't wait to get another one.
The one on my belly hurt the most, but its not so bad, I think. Its bareable. Just squeeze something or somebody. I did a shot of tequila before I had it done (your not suppose too though but I m rebellious) and it made me feel relaxed. That was when I had my 26th birthday. I had it done by a Russian woman in Fox River Grove, Ilinois. Then when I was 30, I was in Arizona visiting my mom (former JW/elders wife/regular pioneer) and we both decided to get another tatoo. She got a Getgo(?) on her ankle and I got a butterfly with fire around it (I know, typical) on the "tramp" side of my back!!!!! I love it.
Have fun, post pictures if what you get. Next one for me will be some kind of frog, I love frogs!
Nikki
nowman, congratulations on your little girl.
cute name!!
pictures????
Horrible Life,
That was so sweet you posted this! It just made my day! I don't know anyone very well (except a few) so I was not expecting this because of that. Thats why I chimed in on another thread!!!
I will post pictures soon, I am partial, but she is so sweet/soft/beautiful...etc etc...very proud mommy here.
Thanks again.
Nikki
on the real nisan 14... sunday april 1st.. shared communion with 500+ other believers after one of the children's choirs sung praises to our lord jesus.. wore a pair of gray dress slacks with a black belt and a short-sleeved gray and black-checked polo and my silver chain and cross.. afterwards, went to ruby tuesday and had a light supper with some of my closest friends.. it was a refreshing evening.... no yadda yadda yadda about the "faithless deceitful slave".
no yadda yadda yadda about only 144,000 can eat the crackers and drink the grape juice.
so, did you enjoy the memorial?.
Kerj,
That is so cool (what you did with your son). I will use this as an example if I run into similiar situation with my children.
Nikki
i usually fast three to four times a year, i am going on my third day now.
i get tremendous health benefits from it as i purge my body of impurities that we eat, drink and otherwise.
i feel much clearer mentally and physically.. has anybody else ever fasted, for how long, how did it help you and what did you do?.
I fasted from the time I was 15 till I got pregnant with my daughter (23) in 1996. I was too worried about being a size 0.
Nikki
my daughter and i were discussing jw doctrine, on the long trip home from skiing.
she is sooo glad she has a normal life.
we also discussed buzz words, and what jw's think about many things.
Well, I thought I would use this thread to show off my little girls name who was just born on 2/5/07, her name is Delanie Parker, we call her "Lanie" for short, umm and "winkers"...there is a reason but I do not want to take up too much time on this thread...just a proud mommy.
Nikki
i do not attend the same hall as my boyfriend because he is currently reproved for being involved with me.
i'm not a witness.
he confessed to his elders that he had sex with someone outside of marriage after his second divorce was already final.
emilyblue, just to clarify one thing. You did a bad thing when it comes to JWism, not real life. There are worse things that could happen. If you already know your realtionship is unstable, then get out while you can (I realize when you love someone, its easier said then done). Honestly, the major reason why he is unstable is probably because of being a Jehovahs Witness.
Hang in there!
Come to the forum for support!
Nikki
2 witnesses from the kh stopped by today.
i did the hide and not answer the door!
i know, i'm a big chicken!
I honestly am hoping they come to my door. They did when the tract campaign thing came out with the tract. It was an elderly woman with a child. I expected them to sound like me when I was a regular pioneer. Yet, this woman hardly said anything at all, nothing that would catch my attention. She said a little bit about the tract, took a few seconds. I was hoping she was going to ask me a few questions, like I used to. Like, are you a bible reader? She seemed like she was quick to leave...I was looking forward to a challenge.
Oh well, they'll come around, when it happens, I will let you know what happens.
Nikki
