You guys are just too sweet and too funny!
Poodles
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Confession time :-)
by damselfly ini can not say the word "potato".
it's true, i have sinned against the english language.. then he tells me, you say "badado" .
now that i'm aware of my mispronounciation it's worse because it's very obvious i am trying to say it correctly.
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Share your most embarassing moments
by DigitalFokus inyou have to be able to laugh at yourself sometimes.... here is one of my most embarassing moments.. i was in 7th grade and also the new kid in school.
this happened during one of our first big test's, i think it was my english glass but i am not sure.. i had bad gas for some reason that day and had been holding it in instead of "dusting the crops" in the hallways (which is a great way to shed your gas without having to claim it).
i am sitting in class trying to concentrate on the test while holding in my deadly gas with all the strength my buttcheeks could muster.
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Poodles
One day i got on the city bus and i didn't know that some buttoms had come unbuttoned, i am a big chested woman so i received alot of stares! I wanted to dig a hole and dive into it, i couldn't look anyone in the face, i walked all the way to the back of the bus so their backs would be to me!!
Paula
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UBMs - why do we love JWs??
by Super_Becka ini think there's been a thread on this before, but i figured i'd ask again.. for all of the ubms out there, why is it that we love witnesses??
what is it about them that we find so attractive??
why are we putting ourselves through this mess when we know full-well that there are lots of non-jws out there who would be better for us??.
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Hi Chrystal
I sure will, i'm been living here for the last 25 1/2 years. I like the employment and climate aspect of living here but the crime really sucks!! It's good to hear from you again!!
Poodles/Paula
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I'm a newbie!!
by Poodles inthis is my first time in this forum!
i joined because i would like to understand the witness way of life w/o joining!!
all debates welcome!!
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Poodles
Hello guys and gals
There is no way i will be a JW nor will i study with them, i don't even go to my own church, i stopped going when i was 15!! I just don't understand his way of thinking/acting!! He doesn't like to talk about hisself or his past! We were together two years before i could get him to "open up" and even then he didn't want to say anything!! After i told his exwife about us he doesn't even trust me to be alone in his apartment! Gee! I wonder why?? How does one know if they are really in love or just in lust?? Since i've never been in love, i'm just not sure! In the beginning of our relationship i accepted the fact that he didn't love me and never said he did but as the years went by i have allowed it to bother me! These things i'm saying reminder me of the ole saying "there's no fool like an old fool", i guess i fit the bill on that one!!
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New here on board..
by tweetybird193 in!st.
i cant get this red to change on here.
im glad to be here.
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Poodles
Welcome Tweety, pull up a chair and stay as long as you like!!
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UBMs - why do we love JWs??
by Super_Becka ini think there's been a thread on this before, but i figured i'd ask again.. for all of the ubms out there, why is it that we love witnesses??
what is it about them that we find so attractive??
why are we putting ourselves through this mess when we know full-well that there are lots of non-jws out there who would be better for us??.
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Poodles
Good morning Chrystal
I hope your day will be a great one! I will keep in mind everything you said!!
Poodles/Paula
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New here,i hope someone might help,my abuser hung himself
by Linzlou24 inhi,ummm ive just discovered this site and im not sure why im even writing this but im at rockbottom and i dont know how feel,maybe im just searching to find someone who might understand and help me understand because i feel so alone and ashamed,confused and sad,even people might find me bad because of how these events turned...but im not bad inside,ive always been such a soft caring person at heart,im a good person just always been lost,alone and confused....ill try not babble too much but from the beggining dad was here one minute,not the next and then not at all,to this day still never bothers,mum remarried when i was about 4,this was the guy who sexually abused me at 7,{mum never knew},they had a baby together...i found my brother dead in his cot,he died from cotdeath,and it was just all downhill from there with my life,that was after my brother i was abused by him....they split when i was around 8 and i guess my mum looking back now on it now just went on her own mission but it wasnt easy for me,she fell for another guy and we moved from one place to the next,every time i started a new school and made friends,it was time pack up and go and start all over.....
mum settled again and remarried a third time when i was around 12,id started a new high school,maybe its just those teens but i went off the rails with mum,i was terrible,didnt mean to be,but i blamed her for all my hurt and life and id rebel at everything,drinking started,running away started and i just wish now i could have felt close when alls i wanted was to love and be loved back...the next bit until now{im 25 now} is what is killing more than ever and id very much appreciate your thoughts because im lower than ever and still scared....mum is very much here in my life now...its only been a few months but shes heartbroken and the love and understanding has been tremendous off her,she blames herself but i blame me.....
when i started the new highschool i met this girl,she became my friend at the time and it was so good to have a friend id do anything she said....anyway she needed some money once and said i know this guy you can come to with me and he will pay you to touch your boobs,thats when it started i agreed because if i said no then shed probably laughed at me,so i went....,it sounds strange{he was nearly 50} but he was very very nice,and said i dont like the person whos brought you up here,shes nasty...,i hated him touch me but i was scared....but at same time i felt i could really trust him,me and this girl never did stay friends....theres another big big part in all of this,but from 13 this guy became the bestest friend i ever had in my whole life,but everything was a big secret,its lasted years...he had an hold over me,though i knew he was supposed be my friend i knew he musnt really be one else he wouldnt put me through the torture of crying and not coping when i had my baby...my babe is 8now but still when i let him touch my boobs so i can buy the best part of my life something nice or take him somewhere that man would buy bigger and better and undermine all my hurt....
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Poodles
Hi Linzlou
Welcome to the forum, i am new here as well!! There are so many good and kind people here who have gone thru so many bad things in their lives!! We/they are here for you, so please stay and keep sharing! Just their listening is such a comfort to me in my time of need! Here are hugs and kisses for you to help keep you going thru your times of need! xoxoxoxoxoxoxox
Poodles
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UBMs - why do we love JWs??
by Super_Becka ini think there's been a thread on this before, but i figured i'd ask again.. for all of the ubms out there, why is it that we love witnesses??
what is it about them that we find so attractive??
why are we putting ourselves through this mess when we know full-well that there are lots of non-jws out there who would be better for us??.
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Good morning CYP
I hope your day is going to be a great one!! I enjoy the things you post, are there more thoughts you would like to share?? I am the kind of person who is always willing to listen to what others want to say even tho i may not take their advice!! To me, what people say about themselves can sometimes help someone else with the same problem, that is why i post my problems here, maybe one of the nice people in this forum can help me w/o even knowing it!! I lack the emotional strength to end it once and for all!! How cruel of him, he knows just what he is doing to me and doesn't care!! I will take some of the blame because i also know what he is doing to me and i am allowing it!!
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UBMs - why do we love JWs??
by Super_Becka ini think there's been a thread on this before, but i figured i'd ask again.. for all of the ubms out there, why is it that we love witnesses??
what is it about them that we find so attractive??
why are we putting ourselves through this mess when we know full-well that there are lots of non-jws out there who would be better for us??.
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Poodles
Thanks CYP
I'll think on what you said and the part about screwing up our kids lives, that hit home as well!!
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I'm a newbie!!
by Poodles inthis is my first time in this forum!
i joined because i would like to understand the witness way of life w/o joining!!
all debates welcome!!
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Hi finally_free
I would like to hear the "puddles" story, that is if you don't mind!
Poodles
Hi jgnat
How are you doing these days? Good to hear from you! Girl, you hit the nail on the head with that one!! I have met his exwife, all three of his daughters (they are adults) and his mother so far and he introduced me as "his neighbor"!! I felt like spitting i was so mad at him!! His family do not deserve to be hurt and i've tried to keep them out of our affair but two Decembers ago i told his exwife about us while we were broke up those two weeks! I think she suspected it all along but kept it to herself!! Who would know him better than an exwife who was married to him for 24 years?? I have never seen him so mad but he managed to get past his anger and ask me to come back to him!! If i speak of him too much just put me in my place and i will back off, ok!!