We all need a spiritual center, even an atheist, many of whom confuse spirituality with God.
Quentin, I couldn't agree with you more. I remember years ago talking to my Psychologist and telling him that I felt I was not religious but I was a spriritual person. He seemed surprised at that. I feel that deep inner feelings about 'whatever' it might be that makes us feel good...whether it be Gawd, nature... or whatever, to me, can make us spiritual. We have to find happiness in what we do in life to feel at peace in our lives.
People think of being spiritual as having to do with Gawd or religion. I have not felt this was a necessary component, so I looked up the word spiritual on dictionary.com. (One of my fav sites, BTW). Here is what it says:
spir·i·tu·al ( P ) Pronunciation Key (sp
adj.
- Of, relating to, consisting of, or having the nature of spirit; not tangible or material. See Synonyms at immaterial.
- Of, concerned with, or affecting the soul.
- Of, from, or relating to God; deific.
- Of or belonging to a church or religion; sacred.
- Relating to or having the nature of spirits or a spirit; supernatural.
Without REALLY knowing what the word spiritual meant I KNEW in my heart it had more to do with what you felt inside rather than it having to do with a religion or Gawd. I have equated being spiritual with the #2 explanation above:
"Of, concerned with, or affecting the soul."
Good luck to your daughter in her endeaver to find her own spirituality. Kudo's to you for publicly admitting that you did wrong in the past. It takes a great person to be able to admit it, not just privately... but to do it publicly speaks volumes about you and your love for your daughter.