Yesidid: Forgive me, I was not informed that being a JW or exJW was a privilege that one should aspire to. I was under the impression that the religion should be avoided all-together, is that not the entire point of this site? But I'm sure I got that wrong too.
When you reference my "pontificating," I never said the people were pathetic, but rather the ways in which the watchtower forces them to condem other religions evil deeds while at the same time covering up their own. Jesus never would have taught his followers to practice such disgusting hypocracy.
And since you know so much about my shoes, then I suppose you know what it's like to take care of your handicapped mother all your life? To spend your childhood comforting her for being beaten by my father? To have finally found her freedom after twenty five years of enslavement to a man she thought she loved, only to lose her to an auto-cratic, child raping cult?
To watch her new "friends" move in on her and lavish her with free gifts all the while whispering sweet nothings in her ear about how satanic her family was, especially me? To watch her slowly degrade over six years from a proud, independent woman to a xenophobic, shriveled excuse for a human being? Seeing her as a pathetic shell of her former self and no one believes you?
To have your sister, brother, father and the rest of your family shrug it off as a PHASE?! To have her try to sabotage your plans for college, to give complete strangers a key to your house while you're still in it?! To listen to her singing the kingdom melodies over and over again like programed drone? To come home everyday from school to find a JW mowing your lawn, or washing your clothes, or giving your mother a sponge bath?! To slowly come to the horrifying realization that she is crazier than your father, that you are the adult and she is the child, and that you have failed her in the most sacred duty ever entrusted to you? And that finally she throws you out of the house with no where to go because of your sexual preferance, and simply because you tried to show her "aposate literature!!!!!!"
But I guess you know all that.
Again, I apologize for not meeting your requirements for giving advice to people that I care about. Next time, I'll make sure to learn as much about them as you knew about me when you made your comments.
Anitar