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Love Is . . . . .

by nicolaou in

when you give your 12 year old daughter a big squeeze when you get home from work.

she'll feign embarrassment and complain "oh dad" because she's not a 'kid' anymore but she won't pull away.

nic'

Wendy_Warden

when your loved one tucks a curl behind your ear

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For those married to a JW

by Wendy_Warden in

and they converted from the church.

as i've said before my boy friend is a jw.

for those of you who were dating a jw and they did leave the church, how did it happen?

Gold Morning : You know the tough part isn't the holidays and stuff. I mean, I guess that it would be annoying not to do them, but I don't really see that as the major problem. I could go without. Really the trinity and deity of Christ is the part that sinks me.

My BF is in no way going to convert me to JB. Personally a lot of our beliefs do agree and I think that was one of the things that brought us together...we were the only people like each other in the whole college. I love him very much and becuase of that I don't want to make a mistake by just tossing him as everyone seems to encourge. I am asking these questions so that I can have a full understanding of what I would be getting into if our relationship goes any deeper.

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For those married to a JW

by Wendy_Warden in

and they converted from the church.

as i've said before my boy friend is a jw.

for those of you who were dating a jw and they did leave the church, how did it happen?

Wendy_Warden

and they converted from the church. As I've said before my boy friend is a JW. For those of you who were dating a JW and they did leave the church, how did it happen? How did you approuch the topic?

I don't pretend to know everything so I am open for your comments whatever they may be.

Wendy

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Inactive?

by Wendy_Warden in

what does it mean for a jw to be inactive?

and why do people call them dubs?

sorry if i should know this but i am kind of new.

Wendy_Warden

What does it mean for a JW to be inactive? And why do people call them dubs? Sorry if I should know this but I am kind of new.

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I should call the police on "SickofLies" JC committee

by kwintestal in

anyone who listened to sol's recordings, would have heard at the end of the first recording of the second appeal meeting (the one that he showed up with a bearded jw named "sean") sol mentioning a second recording device that remained in a brief case recording the elders as they discussed sol's case without him present.

perhaps you are wondering what happened to those.

well, let me fill you in.. sometime while sol was dismissed from the group for the second time, the elders searched the brief case.

Wendy_Warden

Do it!

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This whole fear issue

by Lady Lee in

i have some friends who are christians.

i have gone to their church a few times.

never once have i heard them or anyone else say they have to attend services.

Wendy_Warden

I was wondering about that. My BF is always a little shy/embarrassed to say anything about his church. I've never gone and I understand he can't come to mine, but still. I feel like asking him why he thinks the JW church discourages their followers from reading anything even the Bible without the direction of the church.

I actually read an old watchtower that said if a man were to study the scriptures without the "guidance” of the org then they would be in darkness in two years time. If darkness is the freedom you have outside the JW then I think so. If your faith is truly and easily found in the word of God then you shouldn't have to worry about people reading it on their own. People in the Catholic and Amish churches are discouraged from reading the Bible as well. If darkness is freedom then go for the darkness. Wendy

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Glad to know I am not the only one

by Wendy_Warden in

i've been lurking on this board all morning and reading all the articles about dating/having a relationship with a jw.

because, as many people seem to, i find myself in that situation.

i am confused becuase the jw guy is not a very consistent jw in a lot of ways.

Wendy_Warden

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Glad to know I am not the only one

by Wendy_Warden in

i've been lurking on this board all morning and reading all the articles about dating/having a relationship with a jw.

because, as many people seem to, i find myself in that situation.

i am confused becuase the jw guy is not a very consistent jw in a lot of ways.

Wendy_Warden

Thanks for your help!

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Memorial ...What is it really?

by Wendy_Warden in

my bf invited to go to the commmuinion memorial with him.

i wasn't able to go but someone told to do a little research into it.

what exactly is the service?

Wendy_Warden

Oh my God! I can't believe that! Not only is that really worng, but it is so sad. Jesus died so we could have communion with him. I am sorry if this sounds overly emotionial but I can hardly believe it.

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Best Committee Meeting Yet - They threatened to call the police on me!

by SickofLies in

yeee haaa!

i'm an outlaw now!

the elders warned me that if any i talk about anything said in the judicial committee or post any pictures i've taken, i'm in big trouble and i don't want these people as enimies!

Wendy_Warden

Argh I can't get all of the new files to work! What am I doing wrong? I listened to the appeal. Wow, they have no idea what they are talking about. And rabbit trails? OVer and over....

Please I would really like to hear the new files too. Any ideas?

Wendy_Warden

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