Congratulations!
Your children will only miss out on something if you were to go back to the JWs or fail to fully live your life and enjoy the freedoms you now have.
There are so many exciting things you and your children will be able to do that we who were raised as JWs missed out on.
Many are social in nature and believe me, much more fun than JW social events.
As you raise your kids you will see how happy and care free they are. You will naturally know how much to share with them about your JW upbringing.
When we left the Watchtower, my daughter had just started Junior High. My son was in grade school.We raised them strict in the JW lifestyle just as we had been raised up.
My daughter was so happy. She told me she was going through the motions and just biding her time till she turned 18.
She said she was never going to be a JW. My son was still young enough he hadn't been as indoctrinated like my daughter had.
When I found out it was not the truth I apologized to them and told them. I told them I had been raised that way by my parents and believed it was the right way but now I know different and am going to make it right.
I immediately took steps to give them as normal of a life as possible from that point on. I gave them Birthdays,Christmas, almost all the Holidays. I let them choose an extracurricular activity that they wanted to do. Jessica chose band and Rex chose karate. We had fun.
All JW friends and family shunned the kids and I. I would have limited their access to supervised visits because I didn't want them trying to preach to Rex anyway.We made new friends and included them in our activities.
As far as religion goes,I decided to finish raising my kids with love, guidance, good morals and values but not to try to influence them anymore with religion.
I want them to decide if they want that in their lives.
They are strong independent young adults that I am proud of.
AKA
Ranchette