i have a really difficult problem on my hands and i would very much appreciate some input.. some years ago, my wife and i offered accomodation to a female relative - lets call her auntie molly - who was experiencing some marriage problems.
it was a disaster.
she was irrascible, moody and incredibly badly behaved.
Eman;
You deserve a medal of honor for tolerating such bad behavior in your own castle. If she contends to this day that you molested/raped her, whatever, she deserves no help from you. Just my 2 cents....
"They couldn't quite explain it, they'd always just gone there.....mmmm.mmm.mmm. CTDummies
well my friend, after a second attempt to reach out to me and give me the decision last night i received an unexpected visit from two of the local elders.
apparently the two wts agents decided to pass the torch to the local elders this time.
this was organized by the co along with wts instructions.
Exodus;
Keep your chin up things will only get better. It will take time to heal though. Make no mistake about that. Time heals all....
"They couldn't quite explain it, they'd always just gone there.....mmmm.mmm.mmm. CTDummies
the october 1 watchtower 2001 features articles on training children "properly" and dealing with a "prodigal child.
the latest inside u.s. figures reveal that 86% of jw children leave the fold, with some 29% who eventually come back for reasons of family ties, most never "reaching out.
" that means over half leave permanently.
Maximus;
Thanks for the stats. You are eloquent in the way you post information. Thanks for all your posts. My experience of 25 years in association as one of JW is as you have said it to be. The kids are dropping like flys. And as HCM said the front rows at the KH certainly are empty!
"They couldn't quite explain it, they'd always just gone there.....mmmm
after i came home last night i sat down to have dinner when five minutes later i received a phone call.
i did not picked up the phone.
then it rang again and refuse to answer it so i let the answering machine handle it.
Exodus
I recently just got a call from the bruvvers too. Told them everything is fine here. Don't come over! The real reason they called though, is they again, had nothing better to do. Most of the elders I know have no life, there situation in life is pathetic. They'd be the last ones in life I would fashion myself after as some kind of shinning example many of them think they are.
YouKnow;
There you go with your WTBS hocus pocus Quote:"I love it when Jehovah exposes you guys to the congregation" If you think like that you're a typical WTBS kookburger! Jehovah does not concern himself with such pettiness. You've been reading the Watchtower way to long.
"They couldn't quite explain it, they'd always just gone there.....mmmm
oh ... sitting there ... waiting for the interminable end of the dreary and elongated rambling of someone with no public speaking skills at all ... please end ... anything to break this monotony is welcome ... even singing about 'christian youths' would be more welcome ... music pllllllease ... ahah 'now brothers, we will move into the service meeting with song number 47' ... and out blares ... guns'n'roses 'black leather' .... what cd would you like to sneak in there huh ?
After the public talk..........All Along The Watchtower Jimi Hendrix version. Or "Same Ole Song" by the 4 Tops
awhile back, i saw information on another web site about the wtbts's involvement with the swaggart case.
the information was presented in a way that depicted the wtbts as involved with the swaggart case and, therefore, false religion.. at first, i was shocked.
however, i did some research on what an amicus curie is.
And then out in "service"......"And we there is no charge for our/the literature, but we glady except donations. What an oxymoron! It nauseates me.
hey ... i'm just getting into the swing of this great 'apostasy' thing right ... ?
... i thought y'all out there might well have a story or two to tell, so ... plz tell me tell me tell me about the most embarrasing thing you ever saw at a meeting ...
A brother giving a talk one Sunday suddenly got a case of the "Hershey Squirts" and in the middle of a sentence tells the audience to start singing song number ###. So they do and he hurrys to the mens room. They sing all the verses of the song which nears its end. Suddenly you hear from the mens room......"Sing the 3rd verse again brothers". Finally after that the brother returned to finish his talk.
i posted this onto a previous thread, but wanted to start it on a new one as well.
as jws, we lack the "social outlet" all humans need, to have true friends one can speak openly and honestly with and not be afraid of judgmentalism.
what i've seen firsthand is that the "nucleus" of the congregation often has this need filled: elders, ms's, pioneers, and their families often do things together.
Dear Troubled, If misery loves company you have plenty of company. Same shit here after 25 years of busting ass. They can all go to hell. oops Hades.
hey ... i'm just getting into the swing of this great 'apostasy' thing right ... ?
... i thought y'all out there might well have a story or two to tell, so ... plz tell me tell me tell me about the most embarrasing thing you ever saw at a meeting ...
A brother giving the talk. His zipper was down. A brother in the audience was trying to surreptiously let him know it was down, Finally the brother giving the talk realizes it's down so he turns around from the audience to put his zipper up and when he turns back to face the audience he had zipped his necktie in his zipper, and couldn't standup straight.
april service report 88,735 pioneers (u.s.).
may service report 86,515 pioneers.
i know they'll pick up a couple thousand suckers in.
Pioneering is a waste of time. It just doesn't pay the bills. Especially when you consider some who do. Who the hell would want to fashion themselves after some of the totally dysfunctional misfits.