Hi Michalea,
I am a Christian now and I don't believe for a minute that there is only one right religion in the way that the jw's taught. The truth is Christ and members of His body are in many different churches. We are born of the spirit and Christ lives in us. There are plenty of churches that seem dull or ?? but there are also individual people that you can see Christ in. The love is what is important. I lean toward non-denominational churches but that's just me. I used to go to a Baptist church but I noticed extra rules ie: no dancing, tithing as rule, no wine, etc.. I think that gathering together is important for upbuilding one another. I fail to see why some Christians pick at others about attending church every Sun am, pm and Wed. I do not see it as a commandement of God but I do see it as legalistic and man made. It is a great thing to do if you want to but I do not see it as mandatory and I get very upset with those who think that perfect attendance is more important than our daily walk. I am still looking for a church like that. When I find it, I'll feel at home. imo, most of the Protestant churches teach the gospel that Christ taught and that is most important. I wish that the people would quit judging with a school like mentality calling role call. I relate to what you said about making friends. Christians who were never in a cult like the jw's cannot relate to us no matter how hard they try. I wouldn't wish the experience on them either!! They seem to have had it so much easier and can't see the things that could make us concerned but because of that fact, I find them refreshing. Clueless, yes but refreshing nontheless.. It isn't easy to make friend after being in a cultlike mentality for so long but give it time!! Remember the bible says that to make friends we have to show ourselves friendly. (((((((((hugs to you)))))))) dj