Ditto on that last one. If you love her and trully see a future with her, don't give up w/o a fight. But if you don't, take your walking papers and run.But whatever you do don't pretend to want her back just to make her miserable and get back at her. I am sure you are aware that form the WT point of view you are the injured party and the ball is in your court. If you say you forgive her and want her back she will not be free in the Wt's eyes. Either she gets back together with you and shows repentance (even if she does't want to) or she gets disfellowshipped. If you say it's over between you, there is a chance she won't get disfellowshipped if she palys her card right. So, think before you act. What she's done to you is terrible but don't add insult to injury if you really don't want her back. This may be a wonderful opportunity for you in the long run.
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need help
by jem12 ini was raised in the truth but was not baptized.my wife is and enjoys going out in service but i have found out from her twin sister that while i was away in alberta working she was cheating with a brother from her hall.after coming back and finding out about this and her telling me her sister is lying i found photos of them at dinners bowling and so forth, also i found nude photos of her and after me talking with her and her lying about them that her sister took the photos the truth finally came out it was a man she met from her work that took them,this is a christen women who fears jehovah why would a person with such strong love for her religon do this.after me finding these things out she kicked me out of our house.... please help me find an answer.. because deep down i still love her..
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Just read today about a sect in England called "Lord's Witnesses".....
by rocky220 insounds familiar...?.
link does not work, go to googles, enter lord's witnesses and find the website with the name speroforum.com hope that works, this sect sounds crazier than .
the borg.......rocky220.
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becca1
Is he related to Madonna's hubby, Guy Ritchie?
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WHERE ARE YOU?
by Jez inso, my 16 year old is really giving me a hard time lately.
really horrible stuff.
i won't get into it but my reason for posting this topic, is that i keep thinking how difficult this is to not be able to be mothered when i need it.. i would never have imagined how hard this is.
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becca1
Could you call her and say how much you need her right now, just to "test the waters"? Maybe she'll soften...
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Why would this even cross my mind?!?!?!?!
by Juniper inwell, after 10 years of being together, hubby has decided that he's found his 'soul mate' (the second time this year, neither of which was me) and is moving out.. i'm thirty years old and no kids, thanks to the fact that i spent 12 years in full time service telling everyone it's better to wait until the 'new system' for raising a family.
that's all beside the point - and perhaps better suited for my counselor.
:) anyway, the thought that keeps going through my mind is "this never would have happened if i didn't leave" and "how am i going to find someone to spend my life with at this age and who will understand me the way an ex-jw can"???
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Why would this even cross my mind?!?!?!?!
by Juniper inwell, after 10 years of being together, hubby has decided that he's found his 'soul mate' (the second time this year, neither of which was me) and is moving out.. i'm thirty years old and no kids, thanks to the fact that i spent 12 years in full time service telling everyone it's better to wait until the 'new system' for raising a family.
that's all beside the point - and perhaps better suited for my counselor.
:) anyway, the thought that keeps going through my mind is "this never would have happened if i didn't leave" and "how am i going to find someone to spend my life with at this age and who will understand me the way an ex-jw can"???
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becca1
I think wanderer just made a pass at juniper...
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epistle to the Ephesians
by Ade ini am searching for a few people ( actually as many as can be had ) to start commenting on a verse by verse basis books of the bible - basically a full online bible study starting, for no particular reason with ephesians, if you are interested please leave a message here or contact me via pm.
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becca1
Sounds interesting. PM me with details please.
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Thinking of Visiting Bethel H.Q.
by quixote ini am planning a trip to nyc mid november and the thought has crossed my mind to visit bethel.
i haven't been there ifn aprox 7 years and i am curious to see if anything has changed.
specially with the layoffs and down sizing.. so, do i tell them i'm da ?
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becca1
NYC is the greatest city in the world. Why would you waste your time at Bethel? Go to a museum or a play instead. I saw "Spamalot" in August. It was hilarious!
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Kids are going to college
by Emma inmy daughter got an acceptance to her first choice in colleges last week!
she's leaving for nyc this tuesday to look for a job and a place to live.
(she'll be living with a friend while she looks.
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becca1
Congratulations!
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Why would this even cross my mind?!?!?!?!
by Juniper inwell, after 10 years of being together, hubby has decided that he's found his 'soul mate' (the second time this year, neither of which was me) and is moving out.. i'm thirty years old and no kids, thanks to the fact that i spent 12 years in full time service telling everyone it's better to wait until the 'new system' for raising a family.
that's all beside the point - and perhaps better suited for my counselor.
:) anyway, the thought that keeps going through my mind is "this never would have happened if i didn't leave" and "how am i going to find someone to spend my life with at this age and who will understand me the way an ex-jw can"???
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becca1
30 is an awesome age! You are young but have some maturity and experience. Real men will appreciate that. And having children in your 30's and even 40's is popular now. You have your whole life ahead of you, go out and embrace it.
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I'm sooooo low in my spirits today... :(
by FreedomFrog ini'm not going to get into much details but i'm just so depressed today.
today i feel like i'm living in a personal hell.
i have been sinking into this depression lately and it seems like it's starting to consume me.
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becca1
I always feel sad when someone posts that they are depressed because I've been there and it's no fun at all. Please try to hang in there, life comes in cycles, so there are better days to look forward to. If you can't shake these feelings, please seek professional help. There's no magic pill for everyone but there are some wonderful medications that can help. There is no shame in it. It's an illness like any other.
Take care