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  YES!!!!!! Shunning has backfired!!

  by Dawn in

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  i was df'd a number of years ago.

  my parents never shunned me - they didn't feel that df'ing broke the family ties.

  but when my brothers or uncle were in town i was "allowed" to come visit at certain times when their other jw friends would not be around.

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  dobby

  Awesome! Sounds like your son has grown up to have a mind of his own and a good understanding of the meaning of real love and loyalty.
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  Ozzie's Weekend Poll #7

  by ozziepost in

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  i'm sorry that due to "technical difficulties', last weekend's poll did not appear, but thanks to all those who enquired about why it was not posted.

  glad you're enjoying them!

  so, time to put your feet up, so to speak, and have some fun with this weekend's poll.

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  dobby

  Didn't understand it, but accepted it.

  However a nagging doubt that never went away - 1914 plus 80 years is 1994. If a generation is 70 or 80 years according to Psalms, the generation should have ended in 1994. One year after it doesn't end we change our belief. Coincidence? I think not! New Light? I think not. A cover up and smoke screen? I think SO!
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  JW Family on 'Designing for the Sexes?'

  by Xander in

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  kinda weird, anyone see 'designing for the sexes' tonight?

  as they were panning the camera around the finished room, they rolled over the bookcase and...2 revelation books, 2 evolution books, insight books..etc.

  on the desk?

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  dobby

  My husband and I saw this episode!

  We were debating whether or not they were still active witnesses. If they aren't active anymore maybe they picked those books because they looked good on the shelves - kind of color coordinated with the bright blue walls.

  We did speculate, however, that if they are still active they might be considered materialistic by everyone in their congregation and may not have many friends as a result. Their house seemed really nice, and I am sure they spent quite a bit on that room. Seems like they might get counseled for using their money so frivolously and not putting it in the contribution box. And if the designer is gay, they might get flack about associating with him. Silly that a person would have to worry about all of those things just to re-decorate their house.

  I have to agree that it gave me a start to see those books. It is a wierd feeling that we understand the significance of those books where as the average person would not.
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  Venting. Need some ideas. (long)

  by Mimilly in

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  i need to vent because i feel like i'm going to explode.

  please bear with me while i 'try' to describe what is going on.

  in less than two weeks my baby graduates high school.

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  dobby

  I was thinking maybe she would like a scrapbook. You could do the first couple of pages with pictures of her graduation. Since you are artistic, you could draw designs or something on the pages around the pictures. I know that scrapbooking is really popular and the supplies are relatively inexpensive at craft stores

  If you leave the rest of the scrapbook empty, you could tell your daughter that you know she is going to accomplish wonderful things and you hope to see the book filled with happy memories.You can always get her graduation ring down the road.

  It sounds like you have done a wonderful job as mother, you should feel a sense of accomplishment. I only hope I can do as well with my little one. I am sure you have bittersweet feelings as you watch them go off to follow their dreams, especially if many of your dreams have been put on hold by circumstances. But don't give up, your time is here! So much of the hard work is behind you. Just take it one day at a time. Forget what society may think, mothers like you are MY hero!!!
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  I'm a shallow athiest!

  by Marilyn in

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  our cat was hit by a car tonight.

  i've been so afraid of this happening.

  i saw it happen, and i heard the thud.

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  dobby

  Sorry about your cat Marilyn.

  I think your prayer just shows how much you love your cat, you would try everything to save him. It's just maternal instinct.

  I hope he is going to be o.k..
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  ARE YOU INTERESTED?

  by D8TA in

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  hello watchtower monitors and people of the board....here's the game.. somewhere, in the united states, there is going to be an apostate showing up at one of your district assemblies, he will be sporting a rainbow wig and a john 3:16 sign.

  inside the convention.. now now, before apologists and dissents come my way.....i got a protest permit to be on said premis, and also, once i wear the wig and show the sign....as soon as they tell me to leave, i will comply...therefore i cant go to jail(saaay all you want, i already have an "ace up the sleeve" on this, so guess what?

  you're wrong if you even think otherwise hehheheheheh).

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  dobby

  I believe the John 3:16 signs were started by the fans of Stone Cold Steve Austin. He is a wrestler, although I don't know the reason why this scripture was chosen. Basically, Steve Austin's character is a total rebel and bad ass. Anyway, that's what I have been told about the signs.
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  My Favorite Personality Test~~ Myers-Briggs

  by LizardSnot in

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  i just wanted to share the following personality test with all of you: .

  i've found it to be extremely interesting and helpful in my relationships with those of different personality types.

  http://www.davideck.com/links/keirsey1.html.

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  dobby

  Thanks for posting this link, very interesting. I am an INTJ.
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  Circuit Overseers and Corruption

  by MARTINLEYSHON in

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  as an ex presiding overseer and public affairs spokesperson who is now disfellowshipped!!!

  i am new to this site and have read with keen interest the many and varied topics that have been posted.

  during my 9 years of presiding i encountered certain corrupt c/os for example the friends would treat them like little demy gods, hanging onto their every word, they would, on their visit influence the brothers to part with cash for privledges.

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  dobby

  I have always wondered if it worked that way.

  My husband was never liked by our PO, but we had a CO that he really clicked with, nice guy not too extreme. Our family as a whole gave him a card and about $150 dollars during one of his visits and took him and his wife out to eat at Red Lobster. We did it because we genuinely liked them, not because we wanted anything from them. However, the result was that my husband was appointed School Overseer based on this CO's recommendation, despite the fact he was only an MS at the time. Next time he visits my husband is appointed an elder.

  Next CO comes around he loves the PO but, never clicks with my husband. We give him and his wife $20 during a visit. We get a thank-you card, they wrote "Thank-you for your GIFT" (caps are mine, but we get the point on how they avoid the taxman). And two years later this CO is instrumental in conducting a witch-hunt resulting in my husband's deletion as an elder.

  Guess $20 was just too damn cheap.
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  JW Cruise....S.Caribbean, 12/7-12/14

  by teenyuck in

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  if you are looking to go on a cruise in december, on celebrity, in the southern caribbean, make sure you ask who else is on board, before you book!

  unless you want to spend your days being preached to on a ship...remember, no escape on the water!.

  just got this off of jw on the web: .

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  dobby

  We should all go dressed as smurfs.
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  Another baby? How do I decide...

  by dobby in

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  i want another child, it's just that simple.

  i have one and we are past the rocky early years and now i am thinking of another one.. however, my heart and my mind are in conflict.

  how do you decide whether or not it's in the best interest of your family to add another member?.

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  dobby

  I should say that I have not reached the "mid-life" point by any means.

  The problem is that we had originally planned to have two children so that our children could have a brother or sister. When the orignal plan was made I thought the end of the world was coming and that my biggest concern in raising them would be their spirituality, not saving for college.

  It is with a new outlook on life and firsthand experience at child raising that I am second guessing my plan. Kids are expensive, true, but they also require alot of time, energy and sacrifice on the part of the parent. The rewards of child raising, however sweet, will not fill a void in your soul - I know that.

  However, any child brought into our family is going to be loved, encouraged and supported. He or she will be getting two loyal and dedicated parents. These are things money can't buy.

  Anyway, my point is that this is not a fleeting thought or a way for me to fill any void in my life. I am too tough mentally for that - which is why I could make the hard decision to not have another child if my mind wins this debate.