CoCo & Yknot
Thanks for your encouraging words. My wife was born and brought up as a JW. She was not a student of scripture and did not understand most of the complexities of Watchtower doctrine Yet, she was always very generous and kind to others, inside and outside of the congregation. If a person was in need she was there to offer help and to give support regardless of whether this one was a member of the congregation or not. She was actually living the Christian way of life while many were merely talking about it. To me she was (and is) the embodiment of what Christ said a Christian should be. I knew others in our congregation who had the same qualities. But unless they were active in the ministry and in congregation meetings they were considered "weak" and marginal.
I always resented the fact that the visiting circuit overseers would evaluate the Publishers Record Cards to determine who was "spiritually strong." They never took into consideration the poor widow who generously contributed or the busy mothers who showed hospitality. These wonderful "gifts" were overlooked or discounted. Yet, in Christ's eyes I am sure they had more merit than distributing Watchtower propaganda!