I was on the body of elders in a congregation. A matter was brought up at the elders meeting about spending
money on the wrought-iron fence. It amounted to maybe $10,000 to replace the entire thing. It was brought
up, but there was no discussion on it. (The PO just assumed we were all in favor of it.) After the meeting, many
brothers felt that was a big expense, they were willing to repair the old fence on their own for the cost of materials,
less than $1000. They did not say anything, though. On the night a vote came up, they first asked if there were
questions. I asked several about "exploring alternatives, such as repairing the old fence." They were afraid to take the
vote now, but they did. All the other elders were "FOR" it, and they waited until virtually the entire cong. raised their
hands. Many looked at me, with my hand down. Next, who's "AGAINST" it? I raised my hand as did a few other
people. The measure passed, but not unanimously. The PO later tore into me. "We need to act as a body, all in
harmony. What were you doing? If you didn't want this, we could have discussed it at the Elders Meeting, and then
all supported whatever decision we made." I asked the question about the meaning of the vote, and how it was NEVER
discussed at the elders meeting, but we never really patched that up.