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  For women: your view of strip clubs

  by Paralipomenon in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  i have heard two vastly differing viewpoints on this subject over the years.

  regarding your significant other, would you care if they went to a strip club or not?

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  megsmomma

  Not for us. I always said my hubby CAN go if he wants to, but then I get to go to a MALE strip club too. He said he never wants to go
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  This Little Wisconsin Girl Moved to California

  by Good Girl or Bad Girl? in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  hey y'all, it's official!

  openfireglass flew to wisconsin a few weeks ago and we (mostly he) packed up my stuff and we (both of us!

  ) drove my car across the country.

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  Wow...what a move! I love moving though. It is so fun to get new things to do and see...and fun for OFG to show them to you. I wish you the best!!!!

  I will be moving soon too...from TX to NC. We couldn't get any further from eachother

  Ps.....Did you ever see my thread about where you "predict" someone's life will be in 5-7 years? It was funny to see Richie-Rich "predict" this for you!!
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  Let Kids see Dub Grandparents or?

  by brunnhilde in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  my mom and dad love my son, but i also know because of the depth of their brainwashing, they won't be respectful of my parenting (as i've asked them) and will try to "plant seeds" with him.

  he's only 7, loves his grandma and papa very much and is easily confused and distressed when he gets conflicting info.

  since we left the dubs, we've had a couple different run-ins with my parents trying subtle and not so subtle means to get at my son, or more accurately, get at me.

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  megsmomma

  I agree with all that has been said. Even if you spend time depreogramming after, he may start having some mental anguish over it all...and it would just be better to not have to try to fix him after every time.

  It is different for evey kid though. My sister was never baptised and she doesn't go, but lets our mom take her girls. They are 9 and 11. The 11 year old doesn't seem too affected, but the 9 year old is really confused. She is more of the type that wants to please g-ma...and be"special" in some way (by making g-ma...who is weird...happy)

  You know your son, do what you feel is right. You may save him from lots of pain later in life though by having him "give up" on the few happy times they would give him now.
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  Ever wish the dubs would hop it?

  by KW13 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  everytime i see a dub, i know on the shortlist of subjects they wanna bring up will be coming back to the kingdom hall.. i saw two dubs in the supermarket who knew about megan my girlfriend being pregnant, and they felt it was their place to tell me my responsibilities.

  apparently the best place for my unborn son/daughter is the kingdom hall.. wtf does it have to do with them???.

  i know for a fact that if i ever left my future son/daughter with my mum for the night she would be taking it to meetings if i let her ,so that immediately is off the cards.. dont you just wish dubs would hop it?.

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  megsmomma

  What does "hop it" mean?

  I am thinking it is something on the line of "Mind their own business"...and they need to!I guess that is ONE good thing about being DA'd....they won't give you advise!

  And,I agree with your thinking....I would rather my mom never see my baby (Megan....by the way:)) than her getting to try to brainwash her.
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  If your mate cheated on you, could you forgive?

  by avidbiblereader in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  very personal and yet it happens way too often, but would you forgive and if you did, how would it change you and the relationship?.

  or is it over?.

  abr.

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  megsmomma

  No....not me, or myhusband. We have always agreed that if either of us cheat....it is over because neither of us would be the type that could trust the cheater ever again. We got married at ages 31 and 34...and we knew darn well what we were getting into and what we each expect from one another.....so, in my case...no way.
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  Hubby and I are about to have 3 major life changes.....Whew!

  by megsmomma in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  first news is that we are going to be moving to nc from tx in the next couple months....we are so happy about that!

  hubby grew up there, and we have his family there.

  hubby got a new job with in his company, so he will be learning new things and meeting new people....a good change for him.. and the biggest....we are likely to get full custody of his 3 and 5 year old girls...and move them with us.

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  Thanks everyone....We have been waiting for all these things to start happening for over a year now, so it feels surreal that they actually ARE! We have 2 months till we go back to court...so we will not be going anywhere till then.

  For the next 2 months, we have to call the ex every night and record her. Last night my hubby called...and she answered.."Hello..." and he said..."This is Buddy...can I talk to the girls?" She smugly said "Uhhh....Nope" and hung up. So he called back and again said "Can I talk to the girls?" And she didn't say anything, just hung up...then he called and got the machine and started saying .."This is Daddy, girls, I love you..." and she turned the machine off in the middle of it. She has told my hubby the girls think he is dead and "God" told her he was going to die soon. She is weird....and, I won't feel bad taking the girls from her.....She has done this to herself. Plus, we will be agreeable and flexable with her being able to see them.
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  Hubby and I are about to have 3 major life changes.....Whew!

  by megsmomma in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  first news is that we are going to be moving to nc from tx in the next couple months....we are so happy about that!

  hubby grew up there, and we have his family there.

  hubby got a new job with in his company, so he will be learning new things and meeting new people....a good change for him.. and the biggest....we are likely to get full custody of his 3 and 5 year old girls...and move them with us.

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  First news is that we are going to be moving to NC from TX in the next couple months....We are so happy about that! Hubby grew up there, and we have his family there

  Hubby got a new job with in his company, so he will be learning new things and meeting new people....A good change for him.

  And the biggest....We are likely to get full custody of his 3 and 5 year old girls...and move them with us. (His ex has not let us see them for over a year, and we just now have enough money to take her back to court, and his lawyer says he will likely get them) I will go from one baby full time, to three!! But, I love em to death!

  Whew....This is gonna be one heck of a year!
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  "Honor" of one's parents

  by Pahpa in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  honor is defined in the dictionary as "esteem, respect, reverence.

  " the first commandment relating to human relationships was to "honor your father and mother.

  " (exodus 20) this even included giving material assistance to them if they were in need.

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  megsmomma

  Good point. I hate to say it...however if my JW mother who shuns me ever needs my support finacially....I wouldn't do it. I guess I would rather willfully disobey since the shunning hurts so much. I am BAD.
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  Wanted to share this sunset with you all, took photos

  by needproof in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  although i could not get the ball of the sun in the shots, here is an indication of what it was just like for us, very beautiful!

  i hope this shows how beautiful it was for us!

  6pm local time.

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  Those are AMAZING!!!!!!!! What country do you live in?
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  Elders are after me--PART 2

  by love2Bworldly in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  ok--i have decided i do want to answer the door when the elders return.

  i won't let them speak at all, i am going to hold up my hand and tell them to let me have my say.

  i am planning to say the following, and i'm trying to keep it very simple and to the point:.

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  megsmomma

  I think you have a great response......You don't have anything to prove...and you just may plant a seed of doubt...then someone else will be used to do the watering if it is possible down the line.

  And...if you try the "lock em in the garage with the doberman"....and you add the skunk....Don't leave the poor dog in there!!LOL!