*sigh* I was seeing someone for several months, but it is not working out. So I went back to my only way of meeting men thus far--online dating sites. I have had some really cool experiences, but I think I am getting burnt out....if I read one more email from a guy that reads "u r booteful and I wud luv to chat with u and then maybe we go out and eat" (or my personal favorite today--"you are eye-popping"--I am busty and the current picture reveals that little fact) I think I will puke!
Don't get me started on the ones that I find interesting who either make it a point to state that anorexia is preferred or they live in NY, DC...too far to get involved as far as I am concerned. Right now I could have 20 dates (no joke)lined up and not one of them is interesting on "paper".
So, ladies, how are you meeting men?
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Online Dating
by FreeGirl2006 in*sigh* i was seeing someone for several months, but it is not working out.
so i went back to my only way of meeting men thus far--online dating sites.
i have had some really cool experiences, but i think i am getting burnt out....if i read one more email from a guy that reads "u r booteful and i wud luv to chat with u and then maybe we go out and eat" (or my personal favorite today--"you are eye-popping"--i am busty and the current picture reveals that little fact) i think i will puke!
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Are You Happy With What you've discovered in Life After being a JW ?
by flipper inmy life personally has taken a much more positive turn after leaving the religion.
less stress to be having nights taken up with meetings droning on.
lots more time for reading new things on life, hobbies, trips to take, i enjoy cooking for my wife.
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I feel more at peace not being in the borg. Since I was raised in the borg, I spent the majority of my life in a loveless state amongst the majority of the people I spent time with. Now, I spend time with people who genuinely love me. I have friends that truly are closer than family. I have dates with real men. I have dates period. It is nice to be found attractive--looks and personality. Guys "in the world" tend to like a woman with a viewpoint. It is very refreshing. I also am going to school without all the guilt piled on. I no longer am conflicted on whether I want to spend an eternity in paradise being monitored by the gestapo...
Great topic Flipper! Loves & chaste kisses, FreeGirl -
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Is it ok to shun Jehovah's Witnesses?
by Missanna inlet me explain myself... for instance when your friends and family keep changing their minds... like my sister she didn't want to talk to me, then we started talking again and now she is back to shunning me.
same with my once best friend we were fine with each other's beliefs then one night she tells me in order to have god's favor she has to shun me.
now she's talking to me again.
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FreeGirl2006
If that is what you have to do to protect yourself from your family & former friends, than go for it. That is the stance I have taken to keep from being bruised and battered emotionally by wishy-washy people.
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I LEFT MY HUSBAND last night. Kind words anyone?
by AWAKE&WATCHING ini am white, my husband is black.
he is not baptized but goes to all the meetings and is in the school.
a few months ago i read the following info which i just copied from vinny's thread.
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Leaving a bad marriage is not easy, but as each day passes and you get a little happier and enjoy the freedom--it is worth it. Good luck!
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THINKING OF FAKING IT GOING FOR REINSTATEMENT
by JapanBoy inborn and raised in the borg.. i haven't posted for some time.
i got divorced from my jw wife, of 25 years, after living with another woman for almost 1.5 years [knew her for 3 years] .
the divorce that was my doing was last dec. 06. the divorce went through but all the financial settlements have yet to be agreed on.
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Japanboy--love should be the motivating factor in getting back with your ex-wife.
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Looking for advice from anyone out there with grad or advanced degrees
by NYCkid inhey, i'm finishing up my last year in undergrad school and am considering pursuing grad school.
i am hoping to chat with individuals privately, who are attending grad school or have a graduate/advanced degrees for advice about the practicalities and expenses relating to attending grad school later in life (mid-30s +).. i'm not pursing medicine, law or business, so i'm concerned that the effort and expense of grad school may not be worth it.. thanks,.
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I just finished my undergrad and I am going into a Masters of Accounting. I am 35+. PM me with your questions and I will try to help you out.
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Snow Photos
by Es inheya all.
just got back from the snow, had a great time!.
here are the pics.
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FreeGirl2006
Great photos! Love the baby shots the best! I have a weakness for kid pics--they make a great subject.
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Please Welcome the Following Newbie ...
by snowbird inbluesmurf92re: destroying one's faith 24-aug-07 12:49aug 24, 2007. .
post 1 of 1. since 24-aug-07.
newbie.
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Welcome to an interesting group of people!
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I'm new here
by mind my own ini'm so glad to be a member, i have been reading this site for a while now and finally joined.
i just love reading all your comments, how enlightening!
this site has been a source of great comfort for me in the past few months.
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FreeGirl2006
Welcome! Can't wait to read your story! Those are my favorite threads.
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Have you ever researched your family history, any tips?
by restrangled ini have been researching on and off and just started up again for my dad.
i've gotten back to 1869 and could get further, but all i run into is adds to pay on line companies.
has anyone ever subscribed or used one of these out fits.
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FreeGirl2006
My favorite website, in addition to the ones mentioned, is onegreatfamily.com. It is subscription based. The census records are a great place to gather information. Also, the ellisisland.org if your family immigrated to the US.