Its not that women don't want that, but they want to be around a man who possesss himself.
There is a way some men act that when they treat their lady like a queen that they come across as needy.
On the other hand, she could just be a b*tch.
Sorry if that isn't helpful.
Also, I think your viewpoint of women... well, I can't agree with it. I understand the need to rant, so thats cool. I hope you understand that feedback is a part of putting this stuff 'out there'.
Just to sum up, women want to be treated better then a queen, they want to be treated as an individual. She may have saw you treating her like a queen, but more importantly, she may not know why you treated her like a queen. Just a thought.