Hopefully you will find more meaningful ways to have fun and need less 'conditional' friends. Hopefully you can find some classes or interest groups that can be mentally stimulating and not just "wandering" around during assemblies, service, life, etc.
Posts by Gayle
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61Thoughts on going back, am I the only one that feels this way?
by excaliber inhello everyone, i know you have heard this topic before and your probably thinking.
...not again lol.. but i was wondering if anyone has thought of going back for the same reasons as myself, i don't think its the truth but i searched and my conclusion is that other religions don't have the truth, they are all wrong in my opinion.
if there is no other religion to go too, why leave were i was born and raised.
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New bibles 'made in Japan'
by EndofMysteries ini just thought that was interesting.
i don't recall any literature published in the usa being made in another country before.
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Gayle
Can have them made better (in paper quality anyway) and cheaper there?
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Gayle
Kim,, thank you very much. Hopefully, with your video, ones who are JWs searching or non-JWs, will be able to see this and will be able to 'spot' other red-light JW arguments and how they deny and double-talk.
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A story about Reggie and Reginald... and why it makes me cringe... more vomiting
by confusedandalone inso i grew up in new jersey in a very urban part of the state.
i literally only saw white folks if they were in a police car or if i went to the assembly.
the funny thing is at the assembly there was still a level of segregation as well although it was self-imposed.
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Gayle
caa,,I just want to confirm your observation at Bethel, and the racism. At least in '69/'70, I was a 'new girl' and was working with a black 'new boy' in field service several times, assigned in Colombia Heights Cong. , did field service in Greenwich Village (Steve Lett was our book study conductor there then). Bro. B***** told me there was prejudice at Bethel. I denied that at the time. Soon after, I told my brother at Bethel then too. Fortunately, my brother, just looked at me like 'are u clueless?' and said, "just look, are there any black overseers at Bethel? " Then, I saw it.
Then, in response to Swingle. I was a house keeper for the Bethel Library for awhile. Swingle came over to me asking what was "the name of the cute little n***** gal in the Gilead class" there then? I responded "what?" He restated again, no adjustment. I was stunned.
caa, you are so right!
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A bona fide Circuit Overseer endorses jw.net!
by abiather inthough he is a typical wt slave, we are like david and jonathan.. in my most intimate conversation with him, i asked him:.
how do you manage serving an organization built on inherent contradictions?.
he said: organization helps people to grow spiritual, like any other religious organizations do.
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Gayle
So much for WT scaffolding:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w6nXaCYKTVg&list=PL8E9227205EFBA00D&index=1
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Has Anyone Totted Up the Overall Number of Child Abuse Cases Within the Borganisation?
by outinthemeadows ini just wondered how many cases of child abuse have been declared within the borganisation?
there must be a wapping amount.....and i'm wondering how that compares with other "christian" denominations?
i'm in the uk and theres been a load of cases here, more recently in manchester new moston congregation.
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Gayle
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O0ExmBrb-VY
Here's a wrap-up of recent cases. But there are many, many more.
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Candace Conti v Watchtower Society | June 3, 2013 | Respondent's Brief - prepared by Rick Simons | A136641
by jwleaks injw leaks has published the respondent's brief prepared by rick simons in the case: candace conti v. watchtower bible and tract society of new york & fremont congregation of jehovah's witnesses.
(90 pages).
http://jwleaks.org/candace-conti/.
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Gayle
Still seems strange that anyone could just send in a letter requesting "denial of an appeal," at this stage, 15 mos. into the appeal case (the last 3 mos. it's been quiet). I guess so, as it shows it is recorded received. Guessing the Court has been reviewing the 'written' briefs thoroughly these last few months?
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Candace Conti v Watchtower Society | June 3, 2013 | Respondent's Brief - prepared by Rick Simons | A136641
by jwleaks injw leaks has published the respondent's brief prepared by rick simons in the case: candace conti v. watchtower bible and tract society of new york & fremont congregation of jehovah's witnesses.
(90 pages).
http://jwleaks.org/candace-conti/.
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Gayle
12/12/2013 Received: letter dated 11/18/13 from Joseph Herrera requesting denial of Watchtower appeal http://appellatecases.courtinfo.ca.gov/search/case/dockets.cfm?dist=1&doc_id=2025979&doc_no=A136641
why (what purpose?) was this letter entered in the "docket" and who is this "Joseph Herrera?"
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The civil trial in Japan
by japanesegirl infinally in japan, there happened a civil trial which is by a brother who was unfairly deleted his status by a body of elders of his congregation.
he has sued them for religious and power harassment.
although the brother's name and details are not told, the trial is progressing to the middle stage.
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Gayle
Very interesting, japanesegirl. Thank you for posting and welcome.
yōkoso (sorry if not accurate)
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oh dear I think I messed up and pushed too hard
by Frazzled UBM inreading all the posts on the wt study on higher education and careers really fired me up yesterday.
i have 2 undergraduate and 2 postgraduate degerees and a career as a result which allows me to provide well for my jw wife and son.
i was already unhappy because after 5 or 6 weeks of not going and appearing to be making progress she went back on sunday for the second sunday in a row and as usual was away all day.
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Gayle
ugh,,so sorry to hear this crappy situation for you. Sorry, I don't have any success points about this situation.
However, do I understand she doesn't take your son to meetings? Not to use your son at all in this battle. However, try to throw positive energy into your son now. Use Sundays as family time. She should always feel welcome to come on your outings. Create for your son a positive life. What does he love? Always develop in him love for schooling, learning, the positives of this life now. Make your bond with him, with love, attention, and activities, activities, activities.
The WT world is so boring for a child. You can offer a world of positives, the WT world only teaches negatives, and a false dream world. Talk about things in life at his age level, teaching thinking ability for him. Express your 'unconditional love' to him, no matter what. He will never hear such talk in the JW world. Teach him to also love his mom and always to give respect to her.
He will learn so many good things from you. He will not forget. If you have that door open for him to feel like he's got a true choice, it is very most likely (99+% likely), he will be drawn to your real world. He will not be drawn to a world that DFs. He will have you to encourage college. In time, hopefully, he will have school friends and sports friends, or ones with similar interests.
Your wife has a right to believe as she will. Also, try to hope she will of her own re-evaluation see a more positive life than the one she grew up in, one that DFs, and see that is not the world she wants for her son.