http://www.jw-media.org/beliefs/beliefsfaq.htm
Do you shun former members?
Those who simply cease to be involved in the faith are not shunned...LIE!!! I left and it destroyed my life – everyone I ever knew treated me like trash.
Disfellowshipping does not sever family ties.LIE!!! I wasn't even DFed, I simply left and my family only contacts me on limited occasions. I’m now the “black sheep” of the family.
What gets readers on sites like this is that there is always deniability... the site, after all, is not the official web site and therefore does not speak for the WTS.
Believe in yourself, not mythology.
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