Posts by fifi40

Well there's my mother......................a brief history of her is as follows.............26 years with my dad, 5 kids with him, became a JW along with my dad before I was born but after she had had my 2 older brothers. She ran off with another fella when I was 13 and was df and my younger sis and I used to see her about once every couple of months. Her partner then died and she was on her own for about 4 years and then got reinstated. Shen then stopped attending and drifted off and then left the UK and went to live in Australia for about 10 years with Stan her new partner unitl he died. She is now back in the UK and lives about 15 mins away from me. Sometimes she talks like she is still a practising JW and she will go on about the things that are happening in the world but I try not to get her started on the subject as it is not one I like talking to her about. But a couple of months ago she was into UFO's and how she thought that might be Gods way of sorting the earth. I was like WHAT. Where does she get this stuff from. To much daytime television me thinks. So we are going out with her just before christmas and she is coming over to ours before we go. And my hubby is talking to me before she arrives about something to do with religion and I say to him "Whatever you do dont mention it to my mum". Well she does her usual trick which is you tell her to come at say 12 and she turns up at 10.30 and your not ready. So as I am disappearing off upstairs for a shower I hear her ask Phil "So what do you think to UFO's". Needless to say I was giggling to myself quite a lot.

So yes I think some of us on leaving the JWs can start thinking elsewhere even to the point of making it up (next she will be telling us she was abducted by aliens) but she is 72 and has a to much time on her hands to think about this sort of stuff.

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Age Differences in Relationships Help!

by noontide in

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i find myself in a situation that has me very confused.

id like your input on this.

i work for a large company (over 550 employees) and as such, romantic and or sexual relationships between employees tend to develop every once in a while.

fifi40

Noontide there is only one thing to say GO FOR IT.

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Would you date someone with a history of INCEST?

by kristyann in

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hey everyone!

i hope that at least someone missed me or noticed that i was gone!

i have been so busy, and i don't think that i've really been on here since june.

fifi40

True..............but its really about what you deserve and from what Ive read i think you deserve a whole lot better than him and his problems......................go girl. x

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Would you date someone with a history of INCEST?

by kristyann in

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hey everyone!

i hope that at least someone missed me or noticed that i was gone!

i have been so busy, and i don't think that i've really been on here since june.

fifi40

Im laughing........................It might be a bit cruel.............but funny. Anyway he would get the message. Nah you cant do that...........I dont think..................could you

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50 ways to.........

by ButtLight in

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kill your cell phone!!!!!!!!.

what are the chances of dropping your cell into the toilet 3 times?

pretty good for me.

fifi40

1. Go fishing with it as bait. 2. Accidentally leave it behind the wheel of a large truck. 3. Let it play chicken on a rail track. 4. Give it to a young puppy as a chew toy. 4. Give it to a young baby as a drop toy. 5.Fly to Paris,climb the Eiffel tower and drop it. 6.Wash up with it. Strap it to the horn of a battling rhino. 8.Let it live near a live volcano. 9.Bake it in the oven. 10.Put it in the washer on a 90 degree wash full cycle. 11.Use it for target practice with your semi automatic. 12. Share a bath with it. 13. Pack small explosives around it. 14. Bore it to death by making it attend JW meetings. 15.Attach it to the bumper of your car and drive at high speed into the back of someone (only if your car is fitted with an air bag). 16.Play tennis with it using it instead of a ball 17. Tell it its dumped (it may die of a broken heart) 18.Play catch with it several times, with a blind person. 19.Stick a homemade sail on it and take it to the lake to use a boat. 20. Use it as a puck in ice hockey.........................Well thats a start and its straining my brain

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Would you date someone with a history of INCEST?

by kristyann in

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hey everyone!

i hope that at least someone missed me or noticed that i was gone!

i have been so busy, and i don't think that i've really been on here since june.

fifi40

Kristyann if you have trouble dumping this guy just give him this website address and we will do it for you

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Would you date someone with a history of INCEST?

by kristyann in

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friends

hey everyone!

i hope that at least someone missed me or noticed that i was gone!

i have been so busy, and i don't think that i've really been on here since june.

fifi40

Kristanne if you have trouble dumping him just give him this website address and we will do it for you

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Would you date someone with a history of INCEST?

by kristyann in

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friends

hey everyone!

i hope that at least someone missed me or noticed that i was gone!

i have been so busy, and i don't think that i've really been on here since june.

fifi40

It concerns me a lot that he doesnt want you to talk with anyone you have ever had sex or even been on a date with - that sounds like someone who is very insecure and very controlling.

My only advice is LISTEN to YOUR feelings. Dont ignore them, you have them for a reason. I am not saying dump him but you have to find a place where you are comfortable and happy and only you can be the judge of that. Sometimes we believe what we want to believe or hear what we want to hear, I am not suggesting you are doing this, but I also cant quite believe that his cousin bribed him into sex and he allowed it to continue for 5 years....it doesnt ring true to me. And if it was true shouldnt he running a million miles from this person regardless of the impact on his family.....what about the impact on him and his relationships.

Dont want to be a dark cloud but I am going to be..........something doesnt sound right and if it was me I think I'd be taking some big steps backwards.

Sorry Fifi