Offering my condolences Princess. Like you I have moved on and do not come here very often. But on occation I need to vent or read others comments so I don't feel so all alone. Just a few weeks ago my MIL called to let us know they would no longer be associating with us. She had been holding out hope that we would return to the "meetings" but now she has to take a "stand" in hopes that we would come to our senses. AS IF!
My hushand and I are heartsick because we love them but this new "stand" changes things. After some long talks John has concluded that he will not attend their memorial services when that time comes. They are elderly and could Go any time so we are ready. He is an only child and no other close family in so paying respect won't be such an issue. Their congo is their family and they have all shunned us for years. He will write an Obit to submit to the local newpaper because that will be the only way to eulogies his parents.
Designs is so Right On, JW memorials are one long Infomercial and we are not buying it any longer.