at school, when i was about 10 years old we would have these desks with a little compartment at the bottom. One day i happened to open one of them and someone had left a lunch box inside,(probably that person did not like what he had for lunch that day)as always with my luck i opened the lunch box to find old green sandwhiches inside, unfortunatley for me, i was sitting next to my arch enemy who happend to tell the class that the lunch box belonged to me, so i was nicknamed MOULDY and it followed me until grade 8, nice huh!
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What funny names do people call you?
by JH infor some reason, which i really don't understand, some call me dork..... .
oh, and how do you like my colored background.
i geuss no one knows how i did this..... .
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Color Quiz
by purplesofa inthe results could be interesting.... take the quiz!~!~!~!~!.
http://www.colorquiz.com/.
my results.
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jinjam
Your Existing Situation
The situation is difficult and she is trying to persist in her
objectives against resistance. Finds it necessary to conceal her intentions as
an added precaution, in order to disarm the opposition.
Your Stress Sources
Delights in the tasteful, the gracious, and the sensitive, but
maintains her attitude of critical appraisal and refuses to be swept off her
feet unless genuineness and integrity can be absolutely vouched for.
Therefore keeps a strict and watchful control on her emotional
relationships as she must know exactly where she stands. Demands complete sincerity
as a protection against her own tendency to be too trusting.
Your Restrained Characteristics
Clings to her belief that her hopes and ideas are realistic, but needs
encouragement and reassurance. Applies very exacting standards to her
choice of a partner and wants guarantees against loss or
disappointment.<P>Circumstances force her to compromise and to forgo some pleasures
for the time being. Capable of achieving physical satisfaction from
sexual activity.<P>
Your Desired Objective
Seeks affectionate, satisfying and harmonious relationships. Desires an
intimate union, in which there is a love, self-sacrifice and mutual
trust.
Your Actual Problem
Needs to protect herself against her tendency to be too trusting, as
she finds it is liable to be misunderstood or exploited by others. Is
therefore seeking a relationship providing peaceful and understanding
intimacy, and in which each knows exactly where the other stands. -
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Guess the Sexist
by Deputy Dog inwho wrote: it is generally admitted that with woman the powers of intuition, of rapid perception, and perhaps of imitation, are more strongly marked than in man; but some, at least, of these faculties are characteristic of the lower races, and therefore of a past and lower state of civilisation.
the chief distinction in the intellectual powers of the two sexes is shewn by man's attaining to a higher eminence, in whatever he takes up, than can woman- whether requiring deep thought, reason, or imagination, or merely the use of the senses and hands.
if two lists were made of the most eminent men and women in poetry, painting, sculpture, music (inclusive both of composition and performance), history, science, and philosophy, with half-a-dozen names under each subject, the two lists would not bear comparison.
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jinjam
tetra is so right! the books called "The Descent Of Man And Selection In Relation To Sex"
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must we practice what we believe?
by tetrapod.sapien infor example, i often hear atheists say that while they have a "lack of belief" in any gods (negative position), they are going to make the positive step in their lives and live them like there were no gods.
which is to say that they make their own morals and choices without fear of some god.
but what if an atheist decided one day that so and so religion, that worships so and so god, makes him feel good emotionally, and gives his ever vigilant left hemisphere a break on sundays.
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jinjam
imo without belief we have nothing,even if you believe in karma it some kind of belief, i think at some moment or time in our lives we contemplate whether we evolved and, or we were created by a god!( i think that moment comes when you old and dying) I'm agnostic or rather better put Confused,i suppose it depends on the day.
I can't help saying that only recently i have prayed, not sure to whom, but i felt a certain inner peace, which is so wierd yet comforting, but on the other hand i wake up and i see the world and peoples behaviour towards each other and it makes me wonder, how we do things without thinking,that we cannot be kind or respectful even to people that we know.If god was a god of love how come i don't see or feel it.
"which is to say that they make their own morals and choices without fear of some God."
I do know the things that i believe in, I keep, they are rules to my life that make me a better person, more open minded, respectful, or at least i hope so! -
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Nosferatu's School of Dating - Lesson 2.1 - The Approach
by Nosferatu innow that you've done your practice on starting conversations with strangers, it's time to actually approach women.. first of all, let's cover what not to do when approaching a woman:.
1) never approach a woman from behind.
you will startle her.
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jinjam
if a guy grabbed me like that, i'll tell him to F%รง? off!... and telling her thats she is no fun, honestly you would not want to be doing that to a woman, you might just get a kick in the you know where!
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yet another email...
by puck injust got this one from my mom.... .
making the devil happy.
devil's beatitudes (happinesses).
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jinjam
sorry lisa, thats horrible, our parents are nutters!
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yet another email...
by puck injust got this one from my mom.... .
making the devil happy.
devil's beatitudes (happinesses).
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jinjam
funny enough i grew up in the so called "truth" ,never baptised, but my mom has always been distant( i finally clicked, i'm not baptised and not in the truth)
i would always call her, but she would never call me, its funny really, but in a way i'm shunned by her, its really sad, i decided not to call her (its been 4 months since i heard from her), when my grandfather died i found out through my sister (who by the way found out through my aunt who is disfellowishiped), she wouldn't even call me, sorry to drag you into the whole story. Anyway i understand what you going through,be strong!
Puck puck
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yet another email...
by puck injust got this one from my mom.... .
making the devil happy.
devil's beatitudes (happinesses).
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jinjam
by the way puck!
i haven't seen my mother who is a (jw) in 4 yrs, i phoned her, because i was feeling a little down, she told me to find a witness and get a NWT, (instead of telling me that she loved me) so my point is, deep down she probably loves you, but with this religion unfortunately they don't teach you sensitivity and kindness. all the best and keep your chin up! -
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yet another email...
by puck injust got this one from my mom.... .
making the devil happy.
devil's beatitudes (happinesses).
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jinjam
3.Blessed are the sensitive, for they are the keepers of kindness. They are the ones who make sure that the smaller and weaker do not become skinned and thrown about by the "shepherds."
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I suppose I should stop lurking,
by SacrificialLoon inand introduce myself.
i was raised in "the truth", and for the longest time it was all i knew.
i spent my childhood going through all the things that other witness children went through; not celebrating holidays, not standing up and reciting the pledge of allegiance, not going to school events, or associating with "worldly" children much.
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jinjam
welcome loon,
that feeling stays for a long time, but you learn to live with it! all the best!