They hate it when you are ok with them not speaking to you or "cutting you off". This is when my parents try harder to have some contact with me. They want us to be upset and unable to get on with our lives because we "left jehoobie", you know it's for our own good so that we see our wrong ways and change .
I love to see my mom squirm when she does try to talk JW crap to me and I completely tune her out and continuously change the subject, drives her mad!
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