thank you Mary...you and Blondie do the best comments... glad there are 2 to share the load...it is a lot of work to put that together....better thought out than the drivel the Writing Department tries to pawn off as "spiritual food."
As to the article...para 16-18 about the "inactive brother" (surely a composite of a bunch of situations or just plain made up)...funny I am now that "inactive brother"....except I am never returning to the WT VOMIT...
Here is how my "drifting takes took place gradually":
I did not do a slow fade. But I did plan it very very carefully. I went from being an elder in good standing in Dec 06 to no meetings by September 2007 (and officially "inactive" by the end of February 2008). I gave the Borg my entire childhood and adult life to age 40. I was raised in it from age 4, so I have no real memories of xmas or birthdays... always persecuted at school because of not celebrating anything...you know how kids are..if you are just a bit different, they can be cruel. Its like that in the Organization...if you are not beating to the drum of the Society, you are looked at as "different" and with suspicion.
I reached out and regular pioneered, MS...got accused of lying by jealous types...deleted....changed congos....crawled my way back on the pioneer list, MS...then elder...MTS school.. went to an assignment briefly...changed congos twice.... along the way many attempts were made to derail me...and for a year even succeeded from keeping me reappointed as an elder for a year. (I still have a copy of the letter one elder sent to the Society about me...they dont know I have a copy)...but kept at it..doggedly pursuing the Organization's "carrot."
Once I was deleted as an elder in 06...I knew exactlyhow to fade and what I had to do to be (mostly) left alone...
(1) I switched congos....although only 20 min away..it is in a different congo, different KH, different circuit, even different state. Once the BOE there knew they couldnt reappoint me as an elder for 3 years, they forgot about me. which is exactly what I wanted.
(2) I quit going in FS as soon as I go there (but turned in phantom time for 8 months)...
(3) slowly quit going to all meetings.... never went to the CBS....then less and less to the TMS/SM....then not at all...then started leaving after the talk on Sunday....and then disappeared..
I am now in no-man's land with the Borg..they have nothing on me... I live in one congo's territory, card in another congo..and most importantly...my card is in a different circuit than I live... so I dont have a CO noticing my absence in one congo because I dont live there and the CO where I live doesnt even know I exist....lol
It is true that I will not enjoy complete peace from the rare "shepherding" attempts until I move away from the region (I am too well known in about 150 congos in this "market" because of past responsibilities I have held in the Borg)...but the few phone calls I do get asking how I am are only met by me with "work and school...keeps me busy." And not in a way that encourages further discussion.
I feel bad for those here who have family in and either have to keep attending to keep peace or who dont go and have to deal with the consequences. My JW mom doesnt live close by so she doesnt get pressured to distance herself from me. Thank goodness for small favors.
I hope this article doesnt precipitate a sudden "interest" in Brother Snakes.
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