Posts by shell69

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Things to NEVER say to or Do with a jw...........

by nomoreguilt in

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i'll start with "never do business with a jw".

they will take advantage of you, "but brother".

they will use your good credit, your good name, and then beg off on any deal you might have had, legal or on their word........................whose next?.

shell69

talks about the joyous oral sex you have with your partner??

Shell

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My years as a Social Misfit - memories come flooding back!

by Princess Daisy Boo in

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so i was on facebook last night and just started randomly searching names and checking out people i knew, their profiles and friends etc and i came across a whole bunch of names of jw people i knew as a teenager.

a whole host of memories came flooding back, unpleasant and happily forgotten memories.. ... feeling lonley, unpopular, gossip, cliquiness, bitchy comments, feeling like i would never attract a suitable "brother" for courtship and other such silliness.... i went to bed feeling very disturbed and sad and uncomfortable and i had a horrible night.

but the fact is, i am now an adult and i am generally well liked by most i meet (or so i think .

shell69

Daist Boo

sorry if I missed your thread. I work c**p shifts and don't get to the pc regulalry.

IMHO its quite natural to feel like this, There ARE cliques within this organisation and if your not in with the IN crowd, the your b*gg**d.

Don't worry. Enjoy the frinedships you make with ex schoolfriends on line..

FORGET the judgmental people you used to know in the jw'S

AND

WE ALL LOVE YOU

shell

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You know something I'll never understand...

by RisingEagle in

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is just how deep the witlings manage to get their carp into the minds of people.

let me clarify that.

with my active relatives i understand the brainwashing, because they continuously feed on the pap from the book publishing company.

shell69

STRANGE THAT THE MARLBOROUGHS HAVEN'T FREED HIS MIND.

SINCE SMOKING IS THE DEBILS WORK

LOL.

He'll either go back to the borg, or else he'll chill out over time

SORRY his rantings spoiled your day!

Shell

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Dear Wife, so sorry I checked out and drank too much last week, and thanks

by oompa in

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for the encouraging wt article you printed for me.

it also referenced an article about getting help from the elders in your congregation.

this is the very first thing it says: .

shell69

Unique;

as far as I can see from most of the posters here; it most certainly is not just the odd evening of bashing the bottle. I make NO excuses for my past excesses, but it seems that you will drink more if you are severely troubled.

Ooompa must not be condemmed for this. It is a period of trouble in his life. He will come through it.

Shell ((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGGGGGGYYYYY OOOOOMPAA)))))))))))

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I'm going to be a father

by coolhandluke in

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i'm going to be a father of a 15 year old boy.

my nephew.

there is no human that means more to me than him.

shell69

Cool

as a mother of 4, just be open, honest and accepting of all the things that will be taking place during his assention to adulthood.

Accept, him, correct him firmly but without insults when he messes up.... (they all do), and allow them to be

THEMSELVES ( and don't forget, if you get stuck, we're al here to offer advice)

best of wishes

Shell69

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Re-Appointment as an Elder or Servant

by MARTINLEYSHON in

were you at any time after being removed, or resigned as an elder or servant tempted to reach out for the position a second or third time?

if the answer is yes, for goodness sake put me out of my misery and tell me why?.

be kind because i have not posted for a while.

shell69

My wonderful husband was a MS.

in 1997 we moved congos to the siter cong. The reason as follows; I had raised an issue with a brother I knew when I was a child/ friend of the family. He used his friendship with my family to abuse be. Just to infomr you, this was, as the police later classed it.. 'a minor abuse case', however. when I heard this man was serving as an elder in the Haslingden congregation, but more than that, that he and his wife were registered child minders I felt I had to flag the issue.

Our PO at the time was UTTERLEY non supporting. So much so he instructed a local needs talk along the lines of... we were doing the work of the devil in persuing this matter with a sprirt apointed elder!

When we left the cong and moved on, they refused to send a letter of reccomendation for my husband.

I SWEAR SOLEMNLY TO YOU. all my dear husband had done was support his wife whilst I took the matter further.

The ironic thing is .. the original PO was eventually DF'd for kiddy fiddling. He's since been re-instated and I've seen him on the ministry in the local area.

My husband and I are both now DA'd.

Shell

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