Thank you for all your replies it is greatly appreciated.Ive recently bin taliking to this girl and although at the moment it hurts like hell i think im going to tell her i cannot do a study or do anything else unless she sees sense. I am hoping that deep down she comes to her senses despite her reiterating her love for the truth in recent weeks. I am not holding out to muc hope she will come to her senses but we have had a relationship that is forbidden in her religions eyes. I do love this girl with all my heart and will hopefully and painfully get through the emotional rollercoaster that im about to get on Thank you to everybody who has replied to me on her and privately you guys rock
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What to do?
by adam1989 inive currently been dating a jw girl for aboit 10 months now.
i met her at college and eventually we started going out.
at first is was difficult with me it took her a while to open up to me especially with holding hands and kissing.
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What to do?
by adam1989 inive currently been dating a jw girl for aboit 10 months now.
i met her at college and eventually we started going out.
at first is was difficult with me it took her a while to open up to me especially with holding hands and kissing.
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adam1989
Thanks for the quick reply!I only know about the jw from this board and would appreciate if any of you could share the untruths with me to put to her? Her family are really strong witnesses and i think that this is what is holding her back as she will be shunned as she is baptized. I feel this as when she is with me she does things such as swear and things that witnesses shouldnt do. She has recently started missing door 2 door to spend more time with me which she usually does on a wednesday morning. These are the hope that if i canno commit to her (which would be alot easier) she may see the real truth
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What to do?
by adam1989 inive currently been dating a jw girl for aboit 10 months now.
i met her at college and eventually we started going out.
at first is was difficult with me it took her a while to open up to me especially with holding hands and kissing.
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Ive currently been dating a jw girl for aboit 10 months now. I met her at college and eventually we started going out. At first is was difficult with me it took her a while to open up to me especially with holding hands and kissing. Im due to move away to university in the next few months and she recently implied that she loved me although said she wouldnt say the three words. Her parents know that we like each other as do most of her JW friends but they do not know we have been dating. When were together shes just like a normal fun loving person however when i go away for a week abroad every couple of months whic i do to see family she goes what i call "witness mode" where she tries to say what weve got is wrong and needs to be friends but recently she said she not going to do that no more. From what i understand an elder knows that shes upset and is having "problems with a boy" and is now saying that for us to have a future i need to decide what i want. She said she has considered leaving the religion but cannot as she loves the truth and wants to be with someone who loves the truth to. When i try to bring up her religion and say points which i have read on this site again she goes "witness mode" and brands all ypu guys apostates. She gave me a book entitled what does the bible really teach to read and says she can set me up with lovely man who can teach me which i am currently considering. I know that we shouldnt be together in the view of her reliagion. Im finding it incredibly hard to let her go as i do love her and try to bring myself to my senses saying im only young and there are plenty more fish in the sea but i feel she is the one for me! So i have an choice to make her or a normal life?Only my mother knows about my dilemma and she lives away and were not that close. If i go to the study in your positions of previous experience what questions do you think i should ask the guy because in a study he will i feel be obliged to answer my questions?Then it would be up to me to decide
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Bible translation
by adam1989 inhi there i have a friend whos is a witness and some of her extremists views on how great they are has led me to some research.
i am unclear about the translation from scriptures to the new world translation.
i understand that some of the people who claimed to be able to translate avtually couldn't and this was proved in a court of law.
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Hi there i have a friend whos is a witness and some of her extremists views on how great they are has led me to some research. I am unclear about the translation from scriptures to the new world translation. I understand that some of the people who claimed to be able to translate avtually couldn't and this was proved in a court of law. If this is the case how do witnesses defend themseleves against this. Please correct me if i have said anything wrong and any help would be great.
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Flaws in jw religion
by adam1989 inhi there been reading this forum for a few weeks and this is my first post.
i recently came into contact with a person who is a jw and although we respect each others religion she has recently started preching that the end is near and how much we should hate this current system.
we talk about the jw religion and she accepts my views when i question what she believes.
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Hi there been reading this forum for a few weeks and this is my first post. I recently came into contact with a person who is a jw and although we respect each others religion she has recently started preching that the end is near and how much we should hate this current system. We talk about the jw religion and she accepts my views when i question what she believes. I know she is not a hardcore jw but she is prepared to listen to my questions that question the credibilty if her religion. I was jus wondering as all of you have better knowledge than me if you could tell me what flaws you think the jw religion has so i can put this to her? Thank you